Haru?'s Favorite

I'm female and I love yaoi, but yes. I know what you mean. I'd also like for yaoi to be more real instead of the wrong stuff that the female authors fantasize about, but I read it more for the romance and not so much for the sex, so I don't get as annoyed (I guess it's also because I'm female and it doesn't really apply to me?) But I think Bara is ......