It’s just so sad seeing him feel like that. He can’t even accept himself so it must be super painful hear others talk about him. He feels betrayed and understandably so. In regards to the seme I think you guys are being a little unfair to him too, no one can force any one to come out and sadly the uke heard the seme basically dissing a possible relationship with him.
I hope they finally talk it out because no one is right and no one is wrong. The ukes friend is really just trying to protect his friends peace. Yall are being to harsh imo.