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joufflues created a topic of My Beloved Oppressor

i dont have the heart to read this again, and my memory is FAILING on what in particular he did wrong to her, like, i remember even at one point leaving a comment that was like "i wish she could just die" (NOT in a hateful way, in a sympathetic way (maybe that was another manhwa)), but i dont actually remember what in particular he actually did to her besides neglect and isolate her, and also kill her cartoonishly evil father.

so all i remember right now is his entire life, and im like, NOT on his side, dont get me wrong, but i see all the comments saying "fuck him" "your sob story doesnt matter" "this made me hate him more", but, tbh, this made me like him a little?? obviously hes mentally unstable, but this made me more like "ok true, relatable" for his points (minus marrying her, he shouldve sought out help, not a spouse).

Can anyone in the replies give me a quick refresh on why this literally shitty, awful, i-would-rather-die-than-experience backstory/childhood combo is making people hate him rather than be a bit more sympathetic or at least understanding of him as a character??