Sodalite followed question about what is your philosophy

I'm curious about the consensus on this. Do you think humans are born naturally bad or naturally good, and then afterwards shaped by their environment? Do you think we're born with a mix of both? Or are we a blank slate? Is it standard throughout all people or does it vary?

24 03,2024
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This is due to another post I read. I wanna make my own post and make it positive. Leave your own recommendations. Try not to include suggestions that involve harm and dismisses gay/queerness. Here's my non-sexual list: Gay/Queer: #1 Our Dreams at Dusk : It's a Japanese manga, it's very much focused on the coming of age of a gay teen. Howeve......

22 03,2024
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I need a BL that appeals to GAY MEN specifically. So none of that female centrified content bullshit. I, as a cis gay man, find all these popular "BLs" (specifically from female writers) absolutely shit and just extremely sexualized, along with them DOWNPLAYING the obvious topic which is sexuality. I'm sick of shit like Jinx, POTN, CBAW, BJ Alex, t......

22 03,2024
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The villain turning good and the MC's inability to bring justice. I am sick and tired of supposed villains turning 180 because of the power of love or friendship or whatever divine realization. Even worse when they are written to be SO evil because they had a bad past, so every action is excused the moment they magically become good people. Thus......
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It has been abundantly proved how the media we feed on influences our behaviour and beliefs. The more you get accustomed to a pattern, the more this pattern will be accepted and assimilated into our society, engraved into our brain. Ideology, trends, think of all things that maybe even 10 years ago were frowned upon and now have been normalized be......
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Click on any BL manga and there's a chance that the manga will have non con or an age gap pairing in it. These and similar "problematic" tropes are very common in BL and part of many popular manga or anime in general. There's no need to like them but that is a fact. Now some users here believe that just because someone enjoys reading BL with these ......

19 03,2024
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Sodalite followed question about first kiss

I love yaoi, okay? Don't get me wrong. But are you seriously okay with the uke falling in love with the rapist/predator/paedo seme? Whatever the reason maybe for the seme to do it but this really really bothers me becoz most of the time it's becoz the seme is afraid to confess or some bullshit. Is it really love if you rape them? Like what? I just ......

17 03,2024
Sodalite followed question about get to know you

Share the saddness ╥﹏╥ ( spoiler warning lol) Vash the stampede (priest dude) Xxxholic (yuko) Jormungand (R) Fullmetal alchemist (the quimera girl and roys friend) Urg so many more but cant think rn... The pain is real ╥﹏╥

17 03,2024
Sodalite followed question about get to know you

Ok so I've seen a lot of comments here that either pique my interest, or just really annoy me as a gay man, and they are more often than not from straight women reading yaoi. So, I was hoping people could answer some questions. 1) Why do a lot of fujoshis wish that they were gay men, it's really fucking hard to be a gay man. We don't just revolv......

17 03,2024
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The yoai community and lgbtq community should be not associated with each other, cause yoai brings alot of toxic stigmas and the lgbtq already dealing with enough shit
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10 03,2024
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I was reading another manga from an author I like and as always I like to check the comments right after I finish it. And there’s one particular thing I find interesting about the comments on this author’s mangas; There’s always a comment that says something like: “I’ve read many twisted and fucked up manga but I always fail to understand......

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Two-faced and fickle. Has a good sense of humour (I'm dry & unfunny)

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