the real kang seo an's Topics (4)

"his head must have gone stupid after he got hit by a bottle" and other comments like such.. just plain mean to A VICTIM OF ABUSE. Its very common for abuse victims to not be able to let go of their abuser ESPECIALLY if they're a parent. He knows his dad is hurting him yet (they even explained this in the previous chapters btw :)))))) ) he still seems him as a dad bcs he IS his dad. It's easy for us to nitpick bcs we aren't woo won but it's different for someone who had seem both his dad's good and bad sides.

Idk maybe this hits a lot deeper as a victim of long term abuse cus i personally know the psychologicall effects that long term parental abuse has on people. And the manhwa does such an amazing job portraying it, the "I know i should hate him for what he had done to me but then again they are my parent" feeling is done so well.

Its common for victims to do irrational stuff when theyre in moments of stress bcs its a stress response like these r basic human empathy stuff. Just put yourself in their shoes for a second b4 you go off , thank yew for hearing me yap

Finally theyre fighting, finally theyre letting out their emotions. Both of them kept stepping on each other's toes and kept bottling up their emotions. and its good that they fight this through and get rid of any bad blood + establish a good communication stradegy.

I cant hate the both of them, i know theyve fucked up here and there but its normal in relationships (especially for traumatised individuals like themselves). Theyve both been through way more than your average joe so they have different trauma responses and you should take them into account when reading this :,)

Maybe im taking this personally bcs i have the exact same childhood as kang seo an so i see my past self in him. I think ppl should take into account how sheltered Kang seo an's upbringing is. He had been brought up in such a harsh environment that this was what he was used to. Again im not justifying his actions, if anything im glad woowon stood his ground bcs Kang seo an really did cross the line by not even considering his opinion, but i also cant help but hate him yk. (wow who brought the yapper here)

what woo won said is a very real problem in relationships, esp new ones where they are afriad to relay on each other for problems.
Woo won needs to realise that he can relay on seo an and he wont be a burden. and Seo an needs to realise that he cant force every info out of woowon. He needs to step back and respect woo won's privacy ( i think seo an is flawed but i also think his backstory and upbringing has a lot to do w it). I think they both have stuff to realise and sometimes you can only realise it once you disagree on something :>
This is just my personal take but imo you can only know how good and strong a couple is once they fight and make it through that ( + how they treat each other)

I normally never comment but omg the little notes by the translater were so frequent that it ruined everything. If you want to fucking yap so much then go write it in the last page or something ,not in between panels