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i really dont think eclis considers Penelope as a person, he doesn't care for how she would feel after his betrayal to her. He repeats his dream of Penelope coming to him after her family disowns her, and them living together. Every time he says it as if its such a pure action stemming out of love, its not, his love is obsessive, over the idea of who penelope is to him, he never considers penelope's possible resentment towards him for his betrayal, never considers how she would feel after being disowned by her family, simply wants to live in his happy land with her.

Why do people act as if Penelope has full control over him? he's always acted on what HE wants to do and Penelope is yet to ask him to do something he doesn't want to, when she does ask him for it, he denies.

whenever people talk about penelope's treatment of eclis why is it that only "eclis is the only one that loves her he only sees her, he's devoted and she used him" is considered, what about the fact that both him and Penelope had known at the beginning that he did not consider her his master and that she knew he would become a knight/noble soon enough. I don't think Penelope could've forced herself to love him? How is it her fault she couldn't look past the fact that this is a game and that she wants to go back to her original life and that's why she wants to win the game? Even after his betrayal when he comes to see her he repeats his dream and the people reading the novel are like "i cant forgive Penelope for telling him he's the one who has to die" like she's not allowed to feel resentful towards him, and she's not killing him, she's abandoning him. He has full control over his life he's only obsessed with her, not a robot.