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I know ML may look like a manipulator, but its a litte far from it. He isn't abusing MC lol like stop over reacting, he may be gaslighting him but not to the point that it will harm MC, its more on like ML is helping him to understand more of his own feelings. There is no blackmail, using of others weakness, guilt tripping or such that makes its toxic or red flag. I would say that He's more on doing playful teasing.
I find it disgusting that people are attacking uke only when both of them are at wrong. Don't say that just because ML lost his memories, he's innocent, cause whether he did lose it, he still love bomb MC and made MC hope for something in the relationship.
Try thinking of ML having Dissociative Identity Disorder, personality A is the younger self when amnesia happened and personality B is the true one and they don’t know what happens in each others episode. "A" did all the love bombing. Although they are different personality they are still one in the same body, that is the same as the situation of ML. Although he didn't know what happened during the amnesia, he is still responsible and has the part in the problem. So stop solely blaming uke and stop giving a blind eye on the situation and only taking the other side.