WeirdFrance

I come from a country where sex ed does not exist in schools. My country is very heavily religion centred so any mention of sex in schools or families is seen as tabboo, unless you discuss with your friends. It's sad. And you can really and totally say "they shouldn't have done it" but my country has the highest teen pregnancies in the continent yet no one does anything to fix the problem.

So many young girls date manipulating men that are in their late 20's-30's and no adult in their life helps them out or saves them from predators. So many young couples never truly inform themselves about safe intercourse but instead talk to friends who did it before and "take their advice". Many young moms ans dads drop out. Many. Too many. (I had 2 teen moms in my class. Both dropped out).

It's so easy to judge, but the situation varries from person to person. You don't know of the girl is stuck in an emotionally abusive relationship with the baby daddy. You don't know if the family is religious and cares about old traditions. You don't know is the condom broke during what the couple thought was a safe intercourse. Sex is healthy, and if you have a loving and careful partner, it shouldn't be an issue. But shit happends.

Most kids aren't taught about the menstrual cycle as teenagers EITHER. Mothers don't talk with their daughters. Schools don't even teach the reproductive organs. Ignorance is everywhere. But it's sooooo easy to judge. Why not help and support people in need? Yes, it happend. If they can get an abortion, then great! If they can't, that's great too! Support them...help them finish their studies...It's not easy and you don't know their story.

Y'all need to remember this is their FIRST TIME! FOR BOTH! Of course it'll be fully awkward. Besides that, FL wasn't prepared enough before he straight up wenf in. And with the ML, I was sure some assult would happen, even if it's 'accidental'. He was clearly in the wrong. He wasn't even drunk to 'blame it on the influence'. Hlhe likes it when he's in pain, so FL's words probably turned him on more and did not fully consider the situation at hand on the spot. He wasn't in his right mind and deserves to get punished(yelled at at least) for his actions.

But this is the start for both of them. I feel like to stop reading this when this is obviously their first time is pretty naive. They'll get more comfortable in the future. The ML probably didn't want to hurt the FL but because of his twisted ass, he fucked up big time. But I also wouldn't call it 'mistake'...cause it wasn't one. I hope they get a safe word ASAP!