Ok but there was this reddit story about a dude who tried to save his boss from her “abusive” husband after she showed up at work with concealed hickeys and knee bruises. This lady had to report him to HR because she was forced to tell him about her consensual sex life to get him to back off, which is not a conversation you should have to have with a coworker. Guy then got all pissy because he was just “trying to do the right thing”.
And benefit of the doubt to Shin Seungmin; I attribut this more to stupidity than malice. But the FL’s point still stands. He doesn’t know her well enough to be asking for her life’s details. She doesn’t owe him anything, and he’s also given her creep vibes for a while so she’s even less likely to trust his motivations.
Also even if she WAS being abused and denying it, the best thing he could do is quietly support her and be a safe person to go to if/when she decided to leave.
Ok but there was this reddit story about a dude who tried to save his boss from her “abusive” husband after she showed up at work with concealed hickeys and knee bruises. This lady had to report him to HR because she was forced to tell him about her consensual sex life to get him to back off, which is not a conversation you should have to have with a coworker. Guy then got all pissy because he was just “trying to do the right thing”.
And benefit of the doubt to Shin Seungmin; I attribut this more to stupidity than malice. But the FL’s point still stands. He doesn’t know her well enough to be asking for her life’s details. She doesn’t owe him anything, and he’s also given her creep vibes for a while so she’s even less likely to trust his motivations.
Also even if she WAS being abused and denying it, the best thing he could do is quietly support her and be a safe person to go to if/when she decided to leave.