ethan + dorothy end up together, get married and have a child
theon + julia end up together w child as well
their kids get along well
i frankly dont see why ppl want mc to end up with theon.
theon and julia are selfish and dismissive of their friend ray and his sister
the first timeline - theon knows of MCs feelings for him and uses them to his advantage to remain close to ray in order to stay alive
instead of being honest with his "dear friend" and asking for help with the spirit of darkness, he keeps it between him and julia and uses MC (however, this is cleared up in the current timeline)
dorothea isn't blameless but she and ray are victims of abuse, different levels but still victims . she got the short end of the stick and turned out the way she did, but shes making an effort to change
ethan was also a victim of abuse, and he's also a lil crazy but his entire adult life he honed in on his love and admiration of MC and did everything he could to please her. the fact that he knew theon was using MC and would threaten/argue with him bc he was concerned for MC is part of his redeeming qualities
i dont get what makes him the lesser choice.
between some dude who doesnt love her + used her, and a confidant who loved her enough to reset time to bring her back to life ... the choice is pretty clear to me lol
theon did NOT have feelings for her in the first life, he simply respected her and liked her as a friend. he seems to have grown feelings for her in the current timeline but will move on to his girlfriend and seemingly affair partner from the first timeline
ppl can be mad at minato, parents get annoyed at their kids its normal
im annoyed at minato bc he's been in a mood with hazuki, and his tantrum led to a big accident
i think its fair to get upset , the same way anyone will find a tantrum throwing child in public annoying af too
People read a manga about a family with kids and get mad that they are a family with kids
For real!
having an undisciplined child who acts out in public is not equivalent to a spur of the moment accident lmao. yes children throwing tantrums are annoying but they should not be blamed for accidents they cannot control with their barely developed minds. the responsibility and heat should fall on the parent to teach them.
im not saying its the same situation, im saying its normal for ppl to get annoyed at kids
i have kids in my family and obviously im not going to tell them i hate them or that they annoy me, but kids ARE annoying
theyre cute , theyre loveable, they can also be negative things lmao
as long as an adult isnt punting a kid or hurting them bc of those frustrations who cares if ppl are commenting they hate minato
its a baby yeah but a fake baby , those same ppl are saying they wont have kids so really i dont see whats wrong with ppl hating on this situation
later on theyre going to be commenting how much they love him lmao
Yes it is normal but blaming the kid even do he didnt know what he did wrong is not really ok since theyre brains are not fully developed being patient with them is the only thing to do since scolding them, screaming at them, and making them cry more can make the situation more worse. What hazuki did is really good tho! Scrsaming at the child because he might get burned is understandable and talking to the child to make him understand is really good too! Understanding a kid is one thing to have especially when you want to have a kid or you have a kid! Long story short, If you hate the kid stop reading this manga cause minato is gonna be in the manga alot SINCE ITS THEIR KID plus the manga is dhowing how happy of a family they are, how disipline should be done
be annoyed with the actions, not the doer. him being "in a mood" is part of growing up. it aint like he literally wanted to do that. at that age, they're slowly & carefully learning about their emotions, and kids that age have no knowledge of controlling it, thats why those emotions become "moods" & "tantrums". and theres where adults come in. they need to teach whats ok, whats not, & how to control their emotions. a kid will only be "negative things" if they are not supervised well & are exposed to trauma.
2, theres a big difference between being annoyed from hating/mad. so them "hating" on a kid is such a big word.
lastly, theres also a difference between wanting to have kids vs loving them. lets say u have family members with kids & u dont cuz u dont want one. does that mean u hate the kids from ur family? having kids is a big responsibility. u can love kids without having one. u can just appreciate & care for their existence & innocence w/o having to actually take care & raise them.
doesnt matter if its a fake baby/kid or not. the values & thoughts of a person show in this type of moments.