My grandma just passed away less than a week ago, so the last chapter kinda brought all the feelings back to the surface. I just really hope that Dan can somehow rid himself of the toxicity that is Jaekhyung and Jumin both and live peacefully with his grandma...
thank you for this... it still feels a bit unrealistic but I'm trying to cope. Thanks again RouHimeSama
You can do it! The memories of her might hurt more than comfort at first, at least for a while, depending on the person. But eventually the memories start to keep you warm more than they hurt, though it'll always hurt. It just gets easier to bear it. Even having memories that hurt is a blessing; means she will forever be a part of you.
You can do it! The memories of her might hurt more than comfort at first, at least for a while, depending on the person. But eventually the memories start to keep you warm more than they hurt, though it'll alwa... inky
That is true, but it's the notion that this person who's been in my life for almost 30 years, since the day I was born till now is gone, you know? Because you take those people for granted and you think they'll always be there. Then, all of a sudden, I look at her favourite chair, and she isn't there. I cook her favourite food and she's not there to smile happily about it. Even if I've coped and moved on a little bit, realising all this makes it all hurt again. It's at these moments that I keep thinking to myself, "she's probably in a better place, maybe," and the thought makes it hurt a but less. Anyway, I'm terribly sorry for dumping all this on you! You're a very kind soul, thank you so much!
That is true, but it's the notion that this person who's been in my life for almost 30 years, since the day I was born till now is gone, you know? Because you take those people for granted and you think they'll... RouHimeSama
Omg this made me tear up. Coming from someone who's had a similar experience, I can relate so bad. I know it hurts so bad. Dw, you’ll get better. . Take care dear.
That is true, but it's the notion that this person who's been in my life for almost 30 years, since the day I was born till now is gone, you know? Because you take those people for granted and you think they'll... RouHimeSama
Of course! The memories, those special, unique, intricate memories, some that only you and her know, will forever hurt at least a bit. They'll always bring grief to the surface, but trust in the process, it will become a welcome hurt; a gladness to have those memories close, and to cherish them, as she would want you to do. Not forever in sadness, but in gratitude of the time you spent together. It takes however long you need it to take, don't rush it. I wish you the best. <3
Of course! The memories, those special, unique, intricate memories, some that only you and her know, will forever hurt at least a bit. They'll always bring grief to the surface, but trust in the process, it wil... inky
I agree. Thank you very much, I'm truly grateful for your kind words! I wish you all the best as well.
My grandma just passed away less than a week ago, so the last chapter kinda brought all the feelings back to the surface. I just really hope that Dan can somehow rid himself of the toxicity that is Jaekhyung and Jumin both and live peacefully with his grandma...
Im so sorry for your loss.
thank you for this... it still feels a bit unrealistic but I'm trying to cope. Thanks again
You can do it! The memories of her might hurt more than comfort at first, at least for a while, depending on the person. But eventually the memories start to keep you warm more than they hurt, though it'll always hurt. It just gets easier to bear it. Even having memories that hurt is a blessing; means she will forever be a part of you.
That is true, but it's the notion that this person who's been in my life for almost 30 years, since the day I was born till now is gone, you know? Because you take those people for granted and you think they'll always be there. Then, all of a sudden, I look at her favourite chair, and she isn't there. I cook her favourite food and she's not there to smile happily about it. Even if I've coped and moved on a little bit, realising all this makes it all hurt again. It's at these moments that I keep thinking to myself, "she's probably in a better place, maybe," and the thought makes it hurt a but less.
Anyway, I'm terribly sorry for dumping all this on you! You're a very kind soul, thank you so much!
Omg this made me tear up. Coming from someone who's had a similar experience, I can relate so bad. I know it hurts so bad. Dw, you’ll get better. . Take care dear.
Of course! The memories, those special, unique, intricate memories, some that only you and her know, will forever hurt at least a bit. They'll always bring grief to the surface, but trust in the process, it will become a welcome hurt; a gladness to have those memories close, and to cherish them, as she would want you to do. Not forever in sadness, but in gratitude of the time you spent together. It takes however long you need it to take, don't rush it. I wish you the best. <3
I agree. Thank you very much, I'm truly grateful for your kind words! I wish you all the best as well.