Loving how ppl can condemn other ppl for wanting to beat a fictional character
As if it necessarily means they're going to do it in real life
The problem rests mostly on how the authors choose to depict kids in their works, here how the girl acted was believable especially with the background the author gave her
So if you're annoyed at kids in general its alright if this girl allows u to vent ur frustration, because she won't be hurt by your comments since it's a character to begin with
Might sound obvious but given some comments...
Bruh.
The logic in your comment is too logical.
I as a person who always expresses their discomfort with a character, or their love for a character, know for sure that they're absolutely not real and are just "a drawing". they're literally just lines and colours.
The problem, is that i actually enjoy this fact. And am taking all the liberty of expressing my emotions about that character, cause theyre not real. If they were a human, then i wouldnt swear at them nor love them this much. Cause humans are "people who feel and think". Yet characters are just a way to free myself from all the boundaries i have with humans.
And ofc as i said in the beginning, this comment is meant to agree with you.
Yeah ik and felt kinda dumb writing that haha
I mean isn’t it a given that fiction is meant to express what we can’t otherwise and for ppl to react to it accordingly
Cuz i do that too. Venting out my frustration or discomfort regarding a character. A lot actually. In life u keep it all bottled up, so everything u keep inside might as well blow up in a comment section rather than somewhere else
And the things we’ll never do/say to ppl who think/feel/can be hurt-hurt you at least we can do it on here
I agree with you too- and I like to forget sometimes that they’re just characters, just to be too damn logical seconds after and be reminded that nope.
XDDD
No prob. I totally get u. And i get how its weird ppl got annoyed at a simple little girl. Most kids are annoying. This kid is nothing compared to the devils i know.
lmaooooo I'm going to copy paste this comment to all those Karens who don't let us complain freely without telling us that we're heartless bitches who must get a therapy lol
Right, compared to most kids she was the kindest soul x)
Before skimming through the comment section I didn’t think she could trigger that sort of reactions from ppl
I guess ppl have a really low level of tolerance towards children or we’re both too used to kids being really unbearable (unlike her)
Omgg yeah feel free to, I’ll gladly help
If they feel the need to answer every single comment, then they should get therapy as well for not being able to differentiate reality and fiction and being pathologically obsessed
Thank you !! hahaha
I'm not gonna lie, I also feel the need to answer all the comments in which they're insulting us bc it's really frustrating, unfair and kinda offensive... Maybe I'm a bit obsess too ? ╮(￣▽￣)╭
Maybe we're just too used to annoying brats XD
Tbh wasting time on those ppl means u give some value to what they say. I recommend ignoring them. Unless they reply to some comment u said. Otherwise i dont see the need to care about those dumbasses
Yeaaah u'r right fam
When Jiwon was rubbing his dick between Donghyun’s thighs while Dg was asleep, I was so taken aback, it seemed like Jiwon had grown but this was him being forceful and forgetting completely about consent just like he used to
Well its prolly because I’ve seen this trope(rubbing/sucking/fucking-u name it, while the other is asleep)used way too many times recently and I have a hard time enjoying completely a story when the author who had made her character change, erases -only for the sake of depicting a highly questionable erotic trope- this growth
So yup I’m done with ranting about that trope which makes me SO uncomfortable (like how can someone not feel like that reading such a scene??? Hello would u like to be abused in ur sleep?? All the more by someone u were supposed to trust??)
Omg no, it's not abuse pooh. It's not supposed to be taken that way. Many couples do that and believe it or not, some people love to be woken up like that. They both are extremely freaky so I expected them to do that alot. It's not about abuse or being somewhat betrayed by someone you trust; it's just really sexy lol
I completely agree, it's so uncomfortable to see him waking up DG like that
Is it wrong that they're a couple and Jiwon doesn't have to hold back with being a pervert, it's normal to do that in a relationship, and I don't think that scene looked abusive, if something this simple could make u complain im sure the s scenes b4 that could make u more disappointed, wth is abusive between a couple and being horny for their sleeping pair, if he slid it right in his ass then that's too much, bro, I feel bad that u depict scenarios as that, enjoy the fact Jiwon and Dg is happy together physically and mentally and they're expressing it
And wdym the author changed the character for the sake of that erotic 'trope', BJAlex was always erotic, and now that they're a couple they will have more mutual sex
It's true that their relationship started off physical but Jiwon now loves to know more about Dg. Don't u just love seeing the pair seme head over heels for their pair?? <3333
He don't look to care though, if he says "I don't like this, don't do that" and then he continues, is abuse.
But, If my boyfriend woke me up like that I will like it ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄
Although many might do it to their partners while they are asleep do not turn it into something consensual, which is what I was referring to (“abuse” might not have been the most suitable term)
Alright if the partner has voiced his consent to be woken up that way beforehand, this wouldn’t be as borderline
However the fact that both Dg and jiwon love sex does not equate to consent from Donghyun to be rubbed in his sleep unaware of his surroundings
Indeed Dg seemed to be fine with it and then it makes it seem as somewhat ok
The whole point of my comment was to rant abt that trope which makes me uncomfortable no matter how many ppl may find it sexy and that i consider borderline regardless of how it might not be unusual in relationships. This chapter and This scene especially triggered it, but that’s it.
many scenes in BJ made me uncomfortable so I am no longer disappointed since I had no expectations from this series in regards of how consent is handled ... my intent was not to call out this scene specifically since as u highlighted they’re both horny and perverts from the get go and well BJ Alex is not the kind of webtoons you expect much depth from, its erotic and the author has found many ways to depict sex scenes some more questionable than others
But yup i get it, the author wants to show us for the last extra chapters that they’ve found each other romantically and physically and that they’re now both willingly going all out and fucking right from when they wake up(and even before)and. don’t get me wrong I am happy to see them like this, especially after all the angst we went through bfore, we deserve to witness their happiness which yeah in their case is translated through how they are in bed first-
In the end i think that i should have posted a separate topic where i could have complained about all the series in which there was such a trope and how some depicted VERY borderline scenes (such as a penetration of someone who’s sleeping, yup thats a big no no) UNLIKE that one scene where there was no penetration
This chapter of BJ alex made me remember past experiences I had reading such scenes and feeling SO uncomfortable, so I used that scene as an example but i was referring to how this trope in general is hard for me to enjoy no matter how sexy it comes off as
Srry if i might have sounded as if i was denouncing the depiction of a kind of abuse (which is not the term i should have used) in this scene specifically which is not what I was going for
Hardly ever has the depiction of a character’s despair has made me feel so uneasy
It’s just suffocating to read, to see him go through this self destructing process while still hanging on to life, you have the feeling all along he wants to stretch out his hand to grab someone else’s and emerge from the sorry state he’s in but it’s so timid I thought at some point he would never, with the latest chapters there’s some hope he will but now it’s not only up to him to escape
I don’t think they’ll let them get away, I just wish Sehyun gets rid of its self deprecating mechanisms however they might end up (dead or on the run or happy ever after)
All in all stigma was catchy from the start and tackles directly very difficult topics without embellishing them, and offers a layered insight into its characters psyché which is nice for a change
But damn. Again it was sooo hard to read
And there i thought the author would seriously kill him (IN THE END HE WAS SO LIGHTLY INJURED THAT IT DIDN'T EVEN TAKE HIM A WHOLE CHAPTER TO RECOVER ... i can't deal with the fact that i believed in a tragic ending) ...... ha ha HAA .... all in all glad she didn't because we got a very wholesome ending
So he clearly died. (The ray of hope is too tiny in all honesty.)
Meaning the author led us on so bad. Represented them making plans for the future, being in love and finally open to each other .....only to forbid them from having any future.
I am so not okay with this.
Fiction should be dedicated to make us witness what we want to witness, unlike in reality where we can’t choose what we experience.
And we clearly didn’t want to witness that.
But again, we are only witnesses. Illegal witnesses on top of that. So gotta accept that i guess. And forget this chapter was uploaded. Delusional much right now.
were not sure yet if hes dead. i personally think hes not
Yo the chances of him actually dying is pretty low based purely on how the story was written thus far. Don't assume and ruin it for yourself lmao.
Yup wrote that right after reading it and now reflecting on what happened, I’d say its 50/50
Ok not to be emphatic but the development of their relationship was just so well executed, I am so impressed by how the author is really scrupulous and doesn't rush things
Here the director, even though he didn't care one bit about yiyoung's state or motivation before screwing him up in the first chapter, ensures he is sane and checks his consent
It could have been a steamy chapter with some smut, tbh that's what I was expecting but I am so glad it didn't go that way and it ended just being a sweet heartwarming but meaningful chapter
And well am just shook
Well said!!
Honda and kaido’s storyline has somewhat come to an end, BUT what about their high-school friends’??
The one they met at the café later on and the one who let Honda stay at his place... they had something going on right? Or did I just misunderstand the flashbacks?
it's spin off http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/oko_sama_box/
I'm such a dumbass haha since the characters on the cover seemed different I didn’t think much of it
Anyways thanks
So that webtoon really got me interested in BJs but it's just really tough to find streams like Bj Alex does....does someone know where to look for? I'd be real glad ~
on NutworkTV ofcourse~ haha jk I've only known http://19tv.info but thats for female BJs. I dont know whats popular for gay male BJs
Well thanks for the discovery... freak they're going all out on that website
Yeah I was looking for gay male Bjs but now at least Ik that there special websites for those particular Bjs '^'
Nothing to add- I’m just startled at how much progress was made in the span of a few chapters. Hope the author keeps that pace, cuz loving where it’s going right now, it’s wholesome and healing. It’s just so good to take a break from the angst in other webtoons reading this