
Bro why tf are y'all blaming the poor dude for crying? he quite literally isn't sexual active or understand how bdsm works. The seme didn't explain it to him at all. No safe words either. Ofc he'd be scared if someone started hitting him for doing something (c*mming) he can't control. I literally want to hug the uke. Poor guy.

Oof mc is big on victim-blaming isn't he? Lol but I guess he's the ignorant kind, not the hateful one. Well I know he'll realize how the kid felt after some chapters and will understand him. So whatever

he is not victim blaming imo... he is right in that if the kid was gonna hurt himself he shouldn't have done it causing harm to other ppl... full on car crash. i totally understand him not having full sympathy for the kid yet. He does say he is weak but he doesn't blame him for the bullying iirc. He says he is too weak to stand up to the bullies physically but I don't think he ever says it's the kid's fault he is getting bullied.

No, it's not really victim blaming. This is almost the same case as rail suicides. Okay sure that suicidal person died, great they're now free from life, free from any responsibilities of their choices, but who's gonna bear the consequences? Definitely not them. They're not gonna clean their own bloody remains, pay for eyewitness' therapy, nor pay a fine for disturbing railway activities.
Imagine you're just going to work by car/bike and suddenly you see this one kid throwing himself onto the road in front of you. I'd be surprised if you can avoid any crashes. Boom. The driver now has to deal with the guilt, the trauma, possible injuries, etc.
Not gonna downplay suicide here. It's a serious topic for sure, but thinking that suicide won't bother or even harm others is just naive.

Hate me all y'all want but I really despise it when people force victims to "forgive and forget" and push them towards their abusers and tell them to act kind. ML has been hurt deeply by the people around him and this girl wants him to act all giggly with those same people who hurt him. Now he's forcing himself to become who SHE wants him to be. But no, he needs to go to therapy and work on the afteraffects those people left on him. Poor guy is being pressured again. He needs someone who's understanding of him not force him to do what he's uncomfortable with.

Goodness you guys must still be very young if you can't realize what the bigger picture is yet being this far in the story.
She isn't forcing him she's making SUGGESTIONS to him. He needs to out right just be honest and tell her what he feels but he's desperate and doesn't realize that she'll except him whether or not he trys or not but she at least wants him to try. This is healthy communication a proper therapy at least on a basic level. AND SHE IS ALSO YOUNG AND TRYING TO.
You forget that girls mature quicker than boys do so she's handling every situation like any maturing adult would HE just isn't maturing as fast yet, plus he has super power that basically has warped his way viewing things like a normal person would.
In my opinion she has the more difficult task because while she is juggling the scruggles of her owe trauma and goals- she now has the pressure of taming a potential serial killer should he decide he doesn't want to control himself anymore, while she also has to balance her feelings for him. SHE'S LIKE 15/16 AND HE'S LIKE 17. Goodness but I do hope it works out for the better for the both of them. They are a match made in their dreams afterall.
He should've been endgame with the childhood friend damn