Lol y'all. When I said mc was victim blaming, I wasn't talking ab his suicide. Ofc if he really did jump infront of someone's car, that's irresponsible and selfish. But I was talking ab the bullying he goes through daily at school. He downplays the anxiety and fear the kid went through. Even one of his workers got mad at how he behaved that way. I'll never understand people who are strong but make fun of someone else who isn't. People have different lives and experiences that shapes who they are. And ik mc will soon realize this. Anyway this was what I meant.
Agree. He doesn't sympathize with his co workers either, he can't understand fear because he grew up independent and worked hard for himself. He doesn't realize why others would have a problem with his pace. I think the author intentionally made him that way so that the MC and the bullied kid are opposites, they can learn from each other. Heechan learning empathy and Taekin learning bravery.
Bro why tf are y'all blaming the poor dude for crying? he quite literally isn't sexual active or understand how bdsm works. The seme didn't explain it to him at all. No safe words either. Ofc he'd be scared if someone started hitting him for doing something (c*mming) he can't control. I literally want to hug the uke. Poor guy.
Oof mc is big on victim-blaming isn't he? Lol but I guess he's the ignorant kind, not the hateful one. Well I know he'll realize how the kid felt after some chapters and will understand him. So whatever
he is not victim blaming imo... he is right in that if the kid was gonna hurt himself he shouldn't have done it causing harm to other ppl... full on car crash. i totally understand him not having full sympathy for the kid yet. He does say he is weak but he doesn't blame him for the bullying iirc. He says he is too weak to stand up to the bullies physically but I don't think he ever says it's the kid's fault he is getting bullied.
No, it's not really victim blaming. This is almost the same case as rail suicides. Okay sure that suicidal person died, great they're now free from life, free from any responsibilities of their choices, but who's gonna bear the consequences? Definitely not them. They're not gonna clean their own bloody remains, pay for eyewitness' therapy, nor pay a fine for disturbing railway activities.
Imagine you're just going to work by car/bike and suddenly you see this one kid throwing himself onto the road in front of you. I'd be surprised if you can avoid any crashes. Boom. The driver now has to deal with the guilt, the trauma, possible injuries, etc.
Not gonna downplay suicide here. It's a serious topic for sure, but thinking that suicide won't bother or even harm others is just naive.
Oh ok so the ghost manager is not the same as the red-eyed ghost. That's why when the red-eyed tells him to leave, the ghost manager follows his command. But why are they both obsessed with Giyoon? And why are they both mad at him for "pretending" that he can't see them i.e. ghosts.
I think it has to do with the area of the building? Because it's not like the "manager" just appeared he's BEEN there for a while so although I think "Ju min" is stronger I think he just got mad because the "manager" overstepped? If not I think that because Ju min is mad at me and hates him than "Ju min" now doesn't want the "manager" to be near him and is trying to distance them. Also I think the main reason they are both mad is because his is denying their existence I mean if someone is just denying you of your existence right in front of you wouldn't you get upset? Also I think the "manager" is in love with MC and I mean again you would be upset if someone denied you ever existed especially if that someone is someone you like
Ooou interesting. Could be that.