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I know I got bashed a few weeks back about a comment I made about Doyeon saying how she's no better than Jinjoos husband and now look at her. I've always felt from the very beginning that Jinjoo doesn't deserve to be going through what she's going through, from her husband or from Doyeon, but this is really crossing the line for me.
Her husband was a piece of absolute sh*t but he undoubtedly loved her and never wanted her to go through what she went through as he thought going off the grid would have been the best thing for her at the time but he was wrong, he fu*ked up, and he's in turmoil about it, begging for her forgiveness. Not excusing his behavior whatsoever cause I think she just needs to leave him too, but Doyeon has made herself 1000 times worse in my opinion by how she behaved in this chapter. I understand she has trauma from her childhood, but girl look at who you're trauma dumping to- a middle aged woman who's family gave up on her, husband abandoned her, fearing for her life for years, getting caught up pleasing a college student so she didn't fear getting kicked out and having nowhere to go. Jinjoo has gone through so much worse in the past year than Doyeon's issue which is basically just abandonment but at the same time, not really because she did get adopted by parents who loved her as well. But forcing yourself on someone without their consent, let alone in the ONLY place you knew she felt safe is the shittiest thing to do, something her HUSBAND wouldn't even do. Doyeon has turned into a completely different person from the first chapter, I don't like this selfish, lustful, incompassionate person she's become- or i guess the person she's always been, but just now bringing it to the surface. Jinjoo does not deserve this.