It gets better if you put in effort for it to get better, either by changing yourself or your circumstances or your thoughts/mindset. You can let time do its thing but there's nothing time can do for you if you also dont help yourself. Its also a gamble, cuz yes the hatred might fade on its own just with time alone, but chances are it wont. You can...... 1 reply
portgas d. ace (ma precious baby :'((( crushing on him since 2012 )
bakugo katsuki (annoying piece of shit i accidentally ended up liking :SSSSS )
usui takumi (he's so fucking hot...)
uta from tokyo ghoul (hot as well)
levi ackerman (baby, plz lemme give u a hug reply
I'm a bit older than y'all so my big 3 are quite old works :$$$$$$
-Ai no kusabi (novel)
-Sekaiichi hatsukoi (it used to be really popular a few years ago, before the BL industry bloomed into what it is now)
-Yondaime Ooyamato Tatsuyuki (this one is recent and the art is wonderful) ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶ 2 reply
Unfortunately, sexualizing oneself has become quite normalized nowadays so I can't see how you could stop her in that regard. She probably looks around and sees so many people doing the same thing as her that she thinks its acceptable of her to do it.
Which is why she's the one who has to come to the conclusion "yeah, this is bad, i don't want my...... reply