It depends a LOT on personal taste, but let me try my best to be objective
Anime: Given, Yuri on Ice!!, Junjou Romantica
Manga: BJ Alex, Sign, Killing Stalking (although the author didn't write this as BL, it's too significant to not be included) 1 reply
I love big size differences, especially with gap moe. Also really like dark hair and light hair pairing. LOVE dom/sub verse when it's done right. Also love beastmen of all levels of animal characteristics. Love ugly monsters x human and conventionally unattractive characters.
Ps: you can't say no judgement lol where do you think we are? People ca...... 3 reply
My ex would routinely be horribly rude to their mom (who was such a wonderful and sweet woman).. made me wonder if someday they would treat me like that (they did) 1 reply
Are there any other neurodivergent people here whose special interests include bl manga? I have made friends who like bl, but I've always felt like they aren't as hyper fixated on it as I am. My tastes are as such: 1) I read bl manga and manhwa mostly, not as much manhua. I don't read novels or watch bl dramas 2) I detest highschool settings (with few exceptions) 3) I'm partial to supernatural, comedy, omegaverse, dom/sub verse, and horror/psychological genres 4) I don't read a manga/hwa if it is marked as a tragedy or if it's marked as ongoing 5) I very rarely read dubcon or noncon 6) I like fluff and don't like storylines built around miscommunications or misunderstandings I would love to share opinions about bl with someone who feels the same level of interest as I do, especially if we have similar tastes. Let me know if you'd be interested in adding me on Discord and becoming friends!
P.S I don't feel like posting my Discord information out in the open for just anyone to add, so private message me on here and I'll send it the information here.