This is very much giving clay doll learning how to mimic a real boy, I am not feeling the energy of someone who understands or feels real emotion towards who they are with/what they are doing. Literally like Frankenstein’s monster, confused and easily agitated but attached to what stimulates him.
I’m more grossed out by the fact that I know it’s going to be spun into a “let’s be lonely together” love story. Like, no baby. We may both be broken but why does that mean you can rape me and then guilt me into dating you?
I know it feels dramatic as fuck that he’s just throwing himself into the forest to either a) get kidnapped/killed by the family again and swapped out for another sacrifice who won’t jeopardize the family hold over Mugo or b) caught/punished by Mugo but… his actions aren’t crazy.
Brother is def having a panic attack and certainly has PTSD/CPTSD from his upbringing so he is in flight mode. He was just threatened by his abuser (family head) and DID ask for help from who he views as a guardian (Mugo) who has shut him down callously.
Granted, Ja Heon has asked Mugo to consume him multiple times and this likely didn’t strike Mugo as noteworthy, however I feel that this personality is particularly indifferent to his emotions. I think he perceived that he was the key needed to return to wholeness, but then again it could be because the secondary personality is his passion just as the third is his naïveté and the fourth is his wrath.
Anyways, looking forward to how the characters grow from each other and the plot thickens~
“ I think he perceived that he was the key needed to return to wholeness, but then again it could be because the secondary personality is his passion just as the third is his naïveté and the fourth is his wrath.”
This last sentence is exceptional, YES!
The ones who said ML isn’t going to run the old “I don’t want to commit to you but no one else can have you or I’ll start acting a fool” trope. I want to make sure you’re up to date on your eye exams, if you’re missing signs as obvious as these I hope you aren’t driving yet.
The reason it’s not great ML isn’t disclosing that MC is actually a namer (specifically his) is because now that we know they are going to develop feelings for each other/what is most likely a positive relationship, once it is revealed (I’m guessing by MCs parents in some pseudo humorous way like “you’ve always had this birthmark”) MC is going to immediately overthink it as “ I never had free will and we never had feelings for each other, we were only driven together by the words on our skin just like all these posts on Reddit said, just like all these media outlets said, I can’t trust my feelings and now I certainly can’t trust YOU.”
That’s why it’s bad.
Also, please note, withholding information IS considered deception. Deception can be a form of manipulation, however manipulation is not necessarily deception. “All squares are rectangles”, you know? If he was actively manipulating, this would be gaslighting MC into thinking he wasn’t a namer. However, since he’s doing it indirectly, I’d say it’s just on the side of deception.
Period!! Withholding is tantamount to lying. If you can't be honest about something because it will affect a situation/relationship, then you are being dishonest. Which is lying.
THIS! agreed.
The way some of the comment seems confused is enough shown they prolly either too young (prolly underage) to understand or too blind to realise what is right/wrong.
I think his reasoning was also for himself. I think ML wanted to see how he felt about this person as a person. Disclosing the info would have caused MP to likely be distressed and feel betrayed by his parents. Then, he would fight against getting to know ML, or feel pressured to act a certain way with ML. ML knew that, or suspected it, and wanted to see for himself, if they actually meshed as just two individuals without the chosen one nonsense on top of it all. The fact that he never registered to find his namer pair, shows that he also didn't want to be tied to "fate".
Also, deception isn't always a negative. If the truth does more harm to an individual (ie if their hair looks bad to you but they either love it or are too overwhelmed to fix it) then deception can be a good thing.
I think it is all very situational. We should also keep in mind the ages of the individuals in the story. The average man's frontal lobe, which is in charge of decision making, isn't fully formed until 28. It's actually one of the reasons men are more likely to die or get into accidents during their 20s when compared with women.
Agreed i
Yes, I agree. The angle I was taking was more so answering those confused as to how this was considered “bad”, “lying” or “manipulation.” It’s a different conversation entirely on the reasoning behind it and whether there’s any percentage of justification, which (depending who you ask) there’s always a way to support your choice.
An extreme example that totally has nothing to do with this but I am ONLY using for context of justification: “Mr. Scientist, why are you killing this entire population of one eyed frogs?” “Well, because then only the two eyed frogs can produce which will one day let ALL frogs see better. It’s for the greater good, so of course I’m justified enacting this deplorable action!”
Obviously, this is a different circumstance, but it goes to show that in problematic relationships/situations (not this yet) where deception and/or manipulation become a habit, justification is a tricky line to walk! If he really wanted to see how they got along without the complication of their “fate” he could have skipped having him strip and then seeing if they meshed, dated naturally and then determined later if he had the name when sex came up organically. But he didn’t unfortunately, which will lead to issues down the line no doubt.
You have good points though!!
YESS! Not to mention, being a Namer is something legally important! That definitely has to be some type of crime in his world lmao
I don’t know if I even want the next season, I don’t know if I have the capacity for this whole new plot twist arc
Do you have a link to the raws please??? You got me very veryyyyy curious
https://newtoki468.com/webtoon/47014446
Here’s the link to the raws
Thank you (づ￣ ³￣)づ
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I love everything about this except for the “I have the memories of your dead lover” because I haaate the substitute trope please do not let it go that route and have them develop feelings some other way and NOT off the back of the other relationship
When an author is fond of rape, because even when it’s unnecessary to the plot or the MC/ ML are “happy together now” there’s always going to be that energy in the sex scenes that give mad SA discomfort.
I, too, would projectile vomit if my sexual partner turned into a giant fucking cockroach mid-bang.
The MC is insufferable. I really did try and hold consideration for his backstory too (there were even aspects of him I found relatable!) and it’s like he was able to successfully waterboard every little bit of affection for his character out of me by the end.