As a gay person myself, when I was first discovered BL, I was very happy. I thought I could relate the characters, and that it was great representation. But, as I grew older, I realized that most(not all) depicted unhealthy relationships, and essentially stereotyped gay people(to some extent). Like the whole "uke" and "seme" thing. We don't really ......
As an older guy I can only say, please do everything in your own time and do it only when you feel it's right for you! There is no shame in being 'closet' nor is there an Obligation to come-out to anyone. It is totally OK to lie if you don't want to tell that you're gay. That includes friends as well as family members. If they love you, they don't......
I realized that I was gay when I was about 6. From that point it wasn't easy growing-up as a gay child living in a straight society, in a time where it wasn't accepted socially that often. Having to try to hide it from people, especially those you care about is a very damaging burden to hold on to. I never really had a "coming out" since the only ......
Manga, hands down. I just really hate the way webtoons are constructed. It's like one panel and then TONS OF WHITE and then one panel and TONS MORE WHITE and I just can't even-- Webtoons are more indie though, which is likely where the sense of realism comes from. While it's true I do prefer that kind of story I just find the deliver method so agg......
But he finds out he got deadly disease so he gives up on everything and start to push his ex bf his mom and female best friend away without telling them whats wrong cuz he doesn't want them to see his weak side and see them sad..
so then he meets this fucked up sweet guy whos happen to be his nurse whos always late and in danger to lose his job
The uke keeps making fun of him and cuz hes lonely there wasnt anyone els to hang with exsept the nurse
But the relationship grew without them controlling it
And the seme knows he is sick but he still fell for him anyway
here where the drama begins
The Seme kept watching the Uke suffering while the only thing he can do is to take care of him as a nurse and heartbroken lover
Hi, I'm 20. Slavic, graphic design student and an anti-natalist. Aro/Ace but really into male/male shipping. I honestly don't really like yaoi that much just because (in my opinion) it tries to be realistic but I feel like the authors focus too much on specific roles. Like, this character is a bottom so he will have blonde hair and be short and cut......
22 y.o (gay) male. Still a virgin....well, I have a lot of sexual experience with my past boyfriend (let's just say I was exclusively the 'uke' lol). But I chose to refuse going all the way. To me, sex is a very special bonding between lovers. I'm choosing to wait until I feel in my heart and in my gut that this is the person I can completely lose ......
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