Seeing the sweet comments here really warm my heart. Ngl I'm guilty that i have similar mindset like mc, i live alone so having something with my own effort is the norm, and when people being kind to me i feel like i dont want to be in debt to them so I always try to do it on my own. Well, I'm also the oldest child so that adds my "prideful" temper. But I do agree of people saying don't reject the blessings :"( !