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Hey! a high school student here. I have a very important question to ask about how you chose your job or major. My sister has to submit her applications soon but her choice of subject is still uncertain.
So, how did you choose what you wanted? And how do you feel after experiencing your choices?
I'm certain that I'm personally interested in business but seeing things from my sister's perspective really got me thinking about my future.
Honestly, the girl's an emotional wreck. She's way easily swayed by her momentary feelings that she can be said to be reckless. But, her stubbornness to never learn really leaves me baffled. Like dude you're already stupid, living a normal life should be hard enough.
But how can you do that when you keep crying at every problem you encounter?
Anyways, I will try my best to help her while I can.
Back to the topic, I feel I may regret my decisions and have this vague feeling that I will face a lot of problems on my path. My choice was to definitely go abroad to a prestigious business university.
But then I thought, What after that? Joining such universities will definitely pressure me with stuff like scholarships and student loans weighing down on my consciousness but that is definitely a problem I must face as an independent young adult.
But after college, it's employment. Practically speaking, according to me its school to college to job to family building to retirement and then it's the end.
It's just a general view on the basics but somehow it makes me unsatisfied. I know that these seemingly simple tasks are actually very tough in real life, but passing away thinking that I did something that almost every other person did doesn't make me feel satisfied.
Maybe it will be different in someways but the feeling of life as a structured plan really upsets me for some unknown reason.
I'm sorry for the long rant, but please reply about how you made your choices! I feel lost as of right now so I would really appreciate your wise advices!