is it just me that finds the aunt and mum labelling a bit icky?? it seriously does not feel right at all. just because you birthed a child doesnt mean you should be called mum especially as a man. whats so wrong about calling both your dads dad? i get there may be mix up but why not dad and papa? dad and father? papa and father?? is it seriously just me or am i just being racist or whatever you call it discriminatory (although its literally fiction..) i mean, i have no problem if you prefer being called mum however if its so normalised in omegaverses like these it just doesnt feel right to me at all i cant explan it but i really dont like it
Well basically mom is someone who gave birth to u.. so, for me idc what they call the one who gave birth to u.. u can call a woman dad if she was have a dad role or the other way its all the same.
But if you see it from a gender perspective of course it'll be weird, just look at the philosophy.
Like lgbtq it's all weird if see it from gender only..
it's the "especially" that I don't get. Just "because you birthed a child doesnt mean you should be called mum as a man" would have sufficed. Adding especially implies it's even more an issue because it's a man, and if it was the reverse, it would have been bad but less.
Calling a man "mum" is not really an issue, being a mom even as a man isn't horrible as long as the person doesn't mind being called that way.
You might feel "gunpointed" or "interrogated" but no one did that to you, and the way you use your words incite conflict. As if you wanted people to fight you, though maybe you don't realise it.
Well then! Good night / day and appease your mind a little lol
i didnt mean for it to sound like that its just how my vocab checks out. i never said there was anything wrong if a man wanted to be called a mum, honestly good for them or whatever. i only mentioned i may be held at ‘gunpoint’ only because some people around here dont really hear you out and full on attacks you or invalidates your opinion; i just wanted to share mine like many share theirs, is it so wrong? i mean, i dont really see any female alphas being called father? unless of course i missed something or there isnt much stories, but point is that it doesnt stand as strong. im sorry, but this is how i feel and i believe its totally valid based on the people also agreeing with me. ta xx
ugh i wanted more suspense even including yeoni or wtv his name is to actually try and run away and wtv but couldnt IUGH EUHGUHG THIS ISNT FEELING RIGHT