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I'm calling the police

The police might enjoy it ╮(￣▽￣)╭

WTF

what-

I- am i reading this right?
are you saying that it's acceptable to adults to fuck children??

I- am i reading this right?
are you saying that it's acceptable that adults can fuck children?


(english is not my first language, sorry)

I think that is what this guy is saying...

You have to be certain type of fucked up in the head to think like this

I'm just saying it would be less traumatic if a more experienced person gently took the reins Σ( ￣□￣||)

you are so fucking disgusting. you literally said its normal to have sex with a literal children. do you really think a six years old child can give consent? or 12 years old whatever, if a fucking adult tries to do something sexual with a child its always rape, children cant give consent. and nobody is saying children with children sex is normal but since they are child, they cant know that its wrong. also there is so much difference between minor-minor and adult-minor. a fucking adult should know that its abnormal and wrong and illegal to rape a child. please get therapy and dont interact with children ever again

Thank you so much for speaking out and telling that person the reality and how that person WILL ABSOLUTELY go to jail for inappropriately touching or molesting a child. This manga demonstrates how scary there are actual adults like this in reality who are immoral and so mentally messed up to go to great lengths to even think about raping and touching a MINOR. I am truly fear and I pray for children to have the wisdom and family connections to help them stay away from people who think like the person who posted that comment or potential pedophiles.

But what is a minor in you point of view?

Everyone knows a minor is 17 and younger. That is the law. Even if that child becomes a legal adult like 18 or 19, a grown adult preying on young adults who are officially legal is equally a pedophile as well. The fact that you had to ask me that is truly concerning. There is no point of view. That is reality. No matter how anyone “views” it, it is pure pedophilia and feening for younger adults/kids. That’s why people unfortunately label them as “sugar daddies” and “cougars”. It’s like a predator preying on the young and innocence.

I also see your second post saying it would be “less traumatic”?? I want you to acknowledge that the word that still stood there is traumatic. It will be traumatic either way. It is like saying someone is less racist than the other. Making something more or less does not change the actuality that it will traumatize and scar the minor for life. I mean, I’m pretty sure we all read the nii-chan manga right? That man was so traumatized to the point he preyed on a minor to do the same thing his oji-san did to him. That goes the show exactly why grown ass adults should never put their hands on a young adult/minors. First of all, a young adult/minor body is not even FULLY developed??! How could a “experience and mature adult” going to force their fully developed body onto theirs? Of corse they couldn’t bc that shit will hurt! A underdeveloped body CANNOT adjust to a fully developed body bc it does not go together! That is why grown adults should not feen for little kids and young adults. No matter how you put try to elegantly put it, reword it, or you could lecture me til the break of dawn, at the end of the day, people will always spot pedophiles and they will never get away with it. It is wrong and it is unfair bc you are manipulating and trying to teach minors and young adults that is ok, which is not. That is why the boy in the manga is psychologically fighting himself bc he doesn’t know right from wrong.

On the note that I won't win this argument I concede. I accept your views and deem them morally, legally and emotionally correct.
I didn't comment meaning to truly harm anyone and just did it to put out a question I had. However, there are other points I would honestly like to present regarding age gaps and truly detached realistic 'factual' thoughts on them sans emotion. But I won't unless asked because I don't want to ruin people's view point more than I already have.

And thank you Mimi for calmly and patiently listing your points without swearing, it is appreciated.

I am actually curious about the age gap questions since there are people and celebs out there who believe in age gaps. And I appreciate your curiosity about this since a lot of people tend to turn their heads on society issues Fruity Loops. Thanks for taking the time to read my thoughts based on your question and if you want to talk about those age gap topics, I am most open minded to oblige my opinion and hear about yours :)

I suppose the way I worded it in the beginning was quite crude. In my opinion, and I hope this doesn't further offend anyone, yourself included, a person matures on experience and internal growth. There as some 'Adults' who still act like kids even at their later ages while some 'Children' are far more wizened and understand more of the world. Old Souls basically.

My argument (crude as it was) stems from the fact that people look so down on certain age gaps and not others. I am not [NOT] saying that Nii-chan supports my argument as it shows and represents pedophilia and well, rape. That being sexual attraction towards prepubescent children. And I'm not going to defend nor attack the mangakas or the readers who enjoy writing and/or reading fiction that depicts it as so. And I rather not go into the "It's just fiction" point. But a 'child' is necessarily what you are before puberty.

In some countries, a minor would be <18 in some <17 and maybe even less in others. This is the easiest way to categorize adult/child in a legal standpoint. Same in some places 18< can drink and in some 21<. But what differentiates that?

Scientifically, the coming of puberty indicates the readying of the human body for copulation. Which means, according to nature [I hope I do not offend] we are ready for sex and children at that age. And if mentally ready, then I can't agree with the looking down of people.

If a 70 year old man gets together with a 20 year old woman, society says he's a pervert and she's a gold digger. If the same situation happened with the genders reversed, the woman would be 'shameless' and the man 'power/money hungry'. If two teens get together, there's nothing wrong with that and the society turns a blind eye. If a 21 year old gets together with a 17 year old, it's unacceptable since it's an adult an a minor.
But what do those people think? Doesn't the persons experience, personality and moral compass count?

I will have you know that I do not support pedophilia, grooming, manipulation and rape in the world. But that doesn't mean I fully accept all other relationships, nor does that mean that I don't read on topics related to the above because in my mind [I apologize for bringing out a point I said I wouldn't] it's fiction. And I can clearly separate that. Just because I read 'questionable' genres doesn't mean that I would wish a child gets raped, or that I wish a woman gets ripped apart and humiliated, or that a man becomes a sex slave.

if you don’t mind me joining in, I think age gaps can be alright depending on what ages they are for example my parents are ten years apart from each other but did not get romantically involved until they were 30 and 40 respectively. It would’ve been very wrong if they had started dating when they were say 20 and 30 because they would’ve been in completely different stages in life, having one person who is just going into the world for the first time and someone who has already finished with university wouldn’t sit right.

I don't mind you chiming in at all. But on what basis can you say that it doesn't sit right? Does it not sit right to you specifically or the society as a whole?
[Hopefully this doesn't offend you]
I just mean to say that people shouldn't judge on age instead of mental maturity.

That was actually also my thinking like you said with the 20 and 30 years old, I saw a celeb who is in their 50s dating a girl who is in their mid 20s. In my opinion, that relationship would be so problematic because one has more life experience than the other. Sometimes, it’s like a parent dating what could be their children’s age group. It doesn’t sit well with me seeing that. Also sometimes the younger person in the age gap could take advantage of the older significant other bc of financial reasons. I have seen that as well. I have also seen younger significant others have younger people on the side if the older person they are dating is not meeting their needs sexually.

i think mental maturity is definitely important but life experience is equal to it as well. It’s similar to how a child in grade 3 won’t normally play with a child in grade 6 but on a different scale.

I don’t think people really turn a "blind eye" so to speak, where I am from I suppose, since you are comparing that to a minor and a legal adult which is unlawful. If you are talking about two teens by themselves, I have heard the events that can happen since puberty and hormones are heightened in our adolescent years. I believe if two teens come together and have sex, I believe it is due to release stress or bc "everyone else is doing it". But you have to remember there are "high school sweethearts" out there who used be both minors and not do anything until they are married.

I actually do understand your view when you speak on maturity. I think even though the younger person in the age gap relationship is mentally "mature". They will never be able to understand the older person in the relationship because they have not lived longer. That maturity will only take them so long because at the end of the day their age is their age and they will have different life experiences. I think the world is spilt on age gap relationships. Some people don’t care and others will fuss about it. I personally feel like age gap relationship will be awkward since they are in two different stages of life no matter the maturity, but that’s life ig?

Yeah

I absolutely love your comment lol

yeah sureee ur bf is like 25 so u basically dating with a pedo ideeekkkkkkkk who am i to judge

The person already established that they were genuinely asking a question and that they just formulated it wrong. The person does not support pedophilia or any type related. I know since I thought otherwise as well, but again the person does not condone pedophilia or anything related as such.

yeah I understand they worded wrongly so I hold nothing against them but from how I read it it came of differently. So no hard feelings.

lol thank you but after reading their replies I understand their point of view

I would like to ask if you are an adult. I'd also like to know if you understand that by saying this, you're okay with pedophil*sm or support pedoph*listic tendencies. A child is a child. A MINOR, not an adult with a fully developed brain. Wanted to clarify that children can't make great decisions with their own brain, and that effects the legal alcohol age and legal age for countries and activities. This is not an okay thing to support. I would like to understand your point of view more, however. I will never agree, but I'd like to see what leads you to think this.

Yes, I am an adult and no I don't agree. If you stick too hard to the blurred line known as a minor and adult [I do hope I don't offend]. @wth my point of view is simply that a 'child' is typically prepubescent, and a 'minor' is a term we came up with and we made limits for.
If your argument stands [Still hope I don't offend] then it is wrong for a 17 years 11 months 3 week 6 day 23 hour old person to engage in 'activities' with a person who turned 18 in the previous hour. That basically means that even an hours gap should be deterred, an that, in my point of view is utterly ridiculous.
The same logic applies to other gaps. If a person is mentally mature enough to take on the real world, then there is no problem in dating with someone of a larger age gap. Because that's something people have no right in criticizing if they don't know the inner workings.

This thread was so interesting.

Glad we could entertain you (￣∇￣")

Well not so much entertain but teach?

It was more so giving out opinions on the topic but I enjoyed the conversation since fruity loops gave me some insight based on their question.

I honestly enjoyed it too Mimi, you were very rational to talk to (▰˘◡˘▰)

Well i think the manga is the perfect example for why that would be a terribly wrong idea lmao

I know this is fiction, but that sentence sounds so wrong

lmao it's the truth though

Yikes