Nah bc some of y’all defending his siscon has me dead
Y’all are weird fr! Bc yes I understand that he’s great full for the dedication yor gave in raising him and all but he’s literally IN LOVE with her….,
He does need help BC HES A SISCON there’s no other way to say it, his feelings are complex but asking her to move far away with him just the two of them again as grown people wasn’t weird to y’all??
It’s uncomfortable to read and I lowkey hate his character….. he had so much potential but the whole “date” chapter was not it for me…..
I didn’t expect the comments defending him jeez. Like yes we see how complex his feelings are in the end but y’all saw the collage of photos he has of yor hung up/ enlarged on his wall right???!
This. Is. Not. Normal……
Me and my brother are grown ups in our late 20s with jobs and I told him that I want to live in the guest room of his house with his wife and kids forever. Am I a brocon too lol? Should I look for help? (￣∇￣")
No because you’re not constantly trying to break up your brother family are you? You don’t have a whole collage of your brother on your wall do you? And you decide to liv with your brother are you going to constantly be uncomfortable when they bring up topics about their marriage? (Kissing, sex, etc..)
-If you are: why are you trying to live with a married couple?
no but that’s still highkey weird like why would u wanna do that…
That’s on your to answer but like why? My brother and I are in our late 20s too and super close in age. I wouldn’t want him hanging around all the time while I have a family. Frequent visits would be great but not living together. I would think he’s want to live with his own partner at some point
No to all the questions. But, we're from a conservative society so we don't talk about intimacy or kiss in front of others so that's not a problem.
I got nowhere else to be. I have babied him a lot as we shared a room till we were 20(me) and 18(him). So I think that has created some attachment issues. We lived away from each other for university and post grad but now we've ended up in the same city and even though he's married now he's still asks my opinion on everything, even more so than our parents. And I don't plan on getting married so I suggested I live with them for the rest of our lives. He hasn't talked to my SIL about this yet.
He lives with his partner but comes to visit me every other day and I too end up at his house most of the time.
i know his wife is sick of your ass
He doesn't neglect her in any way and she hasn't mentioned being uncomfortable about any of this. That's why I am asking for an outsider perspective. Should I dial back on this idea? Is our dynamic really that unhealthy?
Maybe take her out to lunch and just ask her if she’s okay with the current dynamic or if she would prefer more space. Some people on this site have different cultures, so I wouldn’t rely on our opinions too much without knowing where each of us are from tbh
Some distance will do you some good!!! I think it’s normal feeling sad when your close to your siblings and they move on to create heir own family, as someone who lives with her adult siblings I understand where you’re coming from but I as a woman would feel a sort of way if my significant others family wanted to live with us the rest of their life….
You have to have boundaries.
It is an unhealthy way of living because you may create problems in his love affairs “family is everything” but he decided to expand his family once he got married doesn’t mean he’s leaving y’all it just means he’s expanding his family.
Some space will do y’all some good (when my brother got married and moved out I did cry but it wasn’t sad tears i was happy for him! I know we’re all different but this is what I think)
You're right. I should have an honest talk with her. And maybe get both me in my brother into family counselling after hearing her feedback.┑(￣Д ￣)┍
I am really happy for him and I don't want to intrude on his family. But just that we've literally lived together in the same room most of our lives, we always try to go back to that familiarity. At first when I started visiting him he slept together with me in the guest room, which our mother forbade later as it was disrespectful to his wife which Irealized after she explained it to me and agreed. He doesn't have children yet so maybe his prefrence will change after he does. I guess we both have some problems we need to work upon.
Can someone recommend more of this to me? I’ve never read a bl where there’s shoujo AND bl but not as a side story, both stories were well incorporated that it didn’t even seem like two separate stories, they’re so intertwined and it makes it more interesting to me than having two stories play out (am I making sense?)
LITERALLY JEEEEEEEZZZZZ I ALMOST KMS I WAS SOBBING ABOUT TO THROW MYSELF OUT THE WINDOW (I live on the first floor) THAT 9 YEAR TIMESKIP HAD ME CRYINGGGG WHEN AOKI TOLD IDA TO WAKE UP I HAD TO REREAD IT THREE TIMES BC I ALMOST PUT MYSELF TO SLEEP OVER THIS YALL STOP DPWM
Im so glad I read the notice before I read this!! To all my fallen soldiers: stay strong… and plz kk if this gets updated anymore (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
This type of revenge is good!! I feel for Dan I know it’s gonna take a toll on him but the worst type of feeling is when someone just doesn’t care, be it love or hatred they don’t feel anything towards you.
Is this completed?
no, it has a side couple
Maaaannnnn i
Thxxx :)
NPPP
Publication yes, uploading no
Its completed for 10 volumes but no one uploaded it yet
Please forget these MTLs upload its horrible to even attempt to read, the official tl is already available
what's mtls?
main translaters?
Machine translation
so like google translate? this manga was translated by google translate??
You didnt notice? After the scan group dropped the series its very questionable, even some raws were taken from other languages and its there because it wasnt cleaned properly
i don't get it, normally when google translates stuff doesnt it come out sounding weird and have like poor grammar n stuff? which chapters had mtl
you can make it better if you have an understanding of english and edited them yourself, not blatantly copied what mtl translated
wait so how can you tell if somebody uses mtl tho? like even if they make it sound like it kinda isn't mtl or wtv.
Honestly same.. BUT NAURRR (╯°Д °)╯╧╧
Dan doesn’t deserve this omlllllll his poor heart </3 I need jk to just confess that he fucking likes him!!
Hopefully after this we see a painful redemption arc for the bastard
Side note: it’s kinda funny/ wholesome that jk cannot ignore old people lol
As much as I hated him I immediately “forgave” when they said he gave up school to provide for him…… YES misplaced anger at its finest! But he really didn’t HAVE to take care of tsubame……, he’s not the best he literally sold his brother off!! But their group is KNOWN for their nonviolence so I’m sure he didn’t want him getting hurt he just got tired of caring for tsubame (how could he??? (╯°Д °)╯╧╧) I think tsubame getting into college on a scholarship made him break (?) I blame the parents idk I can’t hate himmm……….. we need more of his redemption arc!!!