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SAMII March 31, 2025 6:18 am

Nah bc some of y’all defending his siscon has me dead
Y’all are weird fr! Bc yes I understand that he’s great full for the dedication yor gave in raising him and all but he’s literally IN LOVE with her….,

He does need help BC HES A SISCON there’s no other way to say it, his feelings are complex but asking her to move far away with him just the two of them again as grown people wasn’t weird to y’all??

It’s uncomfortable to read and I lowkey hate his character….. he had so much potential but the whole “date” chapter was not it for me…..


I didn’t expect the comments defending him jeez. Like yes we see how complex his feelings are in the end but y’all saw the collage of photos he has of yor hung up/ enlarged on his wall right???!

This. Is. Not. Normal……

    Chimmygirl March 31, 2025 7:32 am

    Me and my brother are grown ups in our late 20s with jobs and I told him that I want to live in the guest room of his house with his wife and kids forever. Am I a brocon too lol? Should I look for help? ( ̄∇ ̄")

    SAMII March 31, 2025 7:38 am
    Me and my brother are grown ups in our late 20s with jobs and I told him that I want to live in the guest room of his house with his wife and kids forever. Am I a brocon too lol? Should I look for help? ( ̄∇... Chimmygirl

    No because you’re not constantly trying to break up your brother family are you? You don’t have a whole collage of your brother on your wall do you? And you decide to liv with your brother are you going to constantly be uncomfortable when they bring up topics about their marriage? (Kissing, sex, etc..)
    -If you are: why are you trying to live with a married couple?

    Sarasovls March 31, 2025 10:47 am
    Me and my brother are grown ups in our late 20s with jobs and I told him that I want to live in the guest room of his house with his wife and kids forever. Am I a brocon too lol? Should I look for help? ( ̄∇... Chimmygirl

    no but that’s still highkey weird like why would u wanna do that…

    Justupdatepls March 31, 2025 1:34 pm
    Me and my brother are grown ups in our late 20s with jobs and I told him that I want to live in the guest room of his house with his wife and kids forever. Am I a brocon too lol? Should I look for help? ( ̄∇... Chimmygirl

    That’s on your to answer but like why? My brother and I are in our late 20s too and super close in age. I wouldn’t want him hanging around all the time while I have a family. Frequent visits would be great but not living together. I would think he’s want to live with his own partner at some point

    Chimmygirl March 31, 2025 2:50 pm
    No because you’re not constantly trying to break up your brother family are you? You don’t have a whole collage of your brother on your wall do you? And you decide to liv with your brother are you going to ... SAMII

    No to all the questions. But, we're from a conservative society so we don't talk about intimacy or kiss in front of others so that's not a problem.

    Chimmygirl March 31, 2025 2:56 pm
    no but that’s still highkey weird like why would u wanna do that… Sarasovls

    I got nowhere else to be. I have babied him a lot as we shared a room till we were 20(me) and 18(him). So I think that has created some attachment issues. We lived away from each other for university and post grad but now we've ended up in the same city and even though he's married now he's still asks my opinion on everything, even more so than our parents. And I don't plan on getting married so I suggested I live with them for the rest of our lives. He hasn't talked to my SIL about this yet.

    Chimmygirl March 31, 2025 2:57 pm
    That’s on your to answer but like why? My brother and I are in our late 20s too and super close in age. I wouldn’t want him hanging around all the time while I have a family. Frequent visits would be great ... Justupdatepls

    He lives with his partner but comes to visit me every other day and I too end up at his house most of the time.

    Sarasovls March 31, 2025 4:04 pm
    I got nowhere else to be. I have babied him a lot as we shared a room till we were 20(me) and 18(him). So I think that has created some attachment issues. We lived away from each other for university and post g... Chimmygirl

    i know his wife is sick of your ass

    Chimmygirl March 31, 2025 4:41 pm
    i know his wife is sick of your ass Sarasovls

    He doesn't neglect her in any way and she hasn't mentioned being uncomfortable about any of this. That's why I am asking for an outsider perspective. Should I dial back on this idea? Is our dynamic really that unhealthy?

    Justupdatepls March 31, 2025 7:17 pm
    He doesn't neglect her in any way and she hasn't mentioned being uncomfortable about any of this. That's why I am asking for an outsider perspective. Should I dial back on this idea? Is our dynamic really that ... Chimmygirl

    Maybe take her out to lunch and just ask her if she’s okay with the current dynamic or if she would prefer more space. Some people on this site have different cultures, so I wouldn’t rely on our opinions too much without knowing where each of us are from tbh

    SAMII March 31, 2025 8:40 pm
    He doesn't neglect her in any way and she hasn't mentioned being uncomfortable about any of this. That's why I am asking for an outsider perspective. Should I dial back on this idea? Is our dynamic really that ... Chimmygirl

    Some distance will do you some good!!! I think it’s normal feeling sad when your close to your siblings and they move on to create heir own family, as someone who lives with her adult siblings I understand where you’re coming from but I as a woman would feel a sort of way if my significant others family wanted to live with us the rest of their life….

    You have to have boundaries.

    It is an unhealthy way of living because you may create problems in his love affairs “family is everything” but he decided to expand his family once he got married doesn’t mean he’s leaving y’all it just means he’s expanding his family.

    Some space will do y’all some good (when my brother got married and moved out I did cry but it wasn’t sad tears i was happy for him! I know we’re all different but this is what I think)

    Chimmygirl March 31, 2025 8:40 pm
    Maybe take her out to lunch and just ask her if she’s okay with the current dynamic or if she would prefer more space. Some people on this site have different cultures, so I wouldn’t rely on our opinions to... Justupdatepls

    You're right. I should have an honest talk with her. And maybe get both me in my brother into family counselling after hearing her feedback.┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍

    Chimmygirl March 31, 2025 8:47 pm
    Some distance will do you some good!!! I think it’s normal feeling sad when your close to your siblings and they move on to create heir own family, as someone who lives with her adult siblings I understand wh... SAMII

    I am really happy for him and I don't want to intrude on his family. But just that we've literally lived together in the same room most of our lives, we always try to go back to that familiarity. At first when I started visiting him he slept together with me in the guest room, which our mother forbade later as it was disrespectful to his wife which Irealized after she explained it to me and agreed. He doesn't have children yet so maybe his prefrence will change after he does. I guess we both have some problems we need to work upon.

SAMII March 13, 2025 7:41 am

Can someone recommend more of this to me? I’ve never read a bl where there’s shoujo AND bl but not as a side story, both stories were well incorporated that it didn’t even seem like two separate stories, they’re so intertwined and it makes it more interesting to me than having two stories play out (am I making sense?)

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SAMII January 25, 2025 4:01 pm

Enemies to lovers but they actually hate each other?

SAMII January 13, 2025 6:22 am

Any good delinquent mangas?
No love triangles/ not too much drama

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