I liked the ending. Idk why ppl hate yujin. Yes he was a shitty guy at first but he was willing to change and look into himself putting aside his pride so that he could be with sian. But yul while he was with yujin was not ready to change. He was afraid of change in himself and in sian as well.
And also to ppl who are saying that sian should’ve “fixed” yul are crazy. You cannot “fix” a person. She did the right thing by not being with him.
Yul is a result of his surroundings and upbringing and that’s not his fault but it still does not excuse his behavior and crimes. A lot of ppl don’t seem to be aware of how much stalking and obsession can be suffocating and can affect an individual’s mental health. Sian is not obligated to “fix” yul. That’s not her job.
And I also don’t agree with ppl saying they wanted to see yul in a relationship in the ending.
Yul always seemed to be preoccupied with thoughts of other ppl to me. He always seemed to thinking of either sian or others and really didn’t let himself sit with his own self. It seemed like he used others as a means of distraction from confronting what lies inside him. He needs to do a lot more of self reflection. Even in the ending, he said that he does labor to distract himself. It did seem like he improved but not fully. He still has a long way to go.
I want yul to be content with himself. I want him to love himself and be feel lived by himself. Not love that he derives from others but just him. He seemed to be uncomfortable being with himself and i think there seems to be a lot of self loathing. I wish to see him truly happy not needing to depend on others. Of course I do wish that he has healthy relationships in his life with friends and family(probably not possible considering his parents). I hope he can walk with self esteem and smile brightly in the future without needing to depend on someone. I truly hope he’s able to find his own peace in his life. I would be glad to read a slice of life webtoon about yul’s life. And maybe we could learn more about him. His interests, his likes and dislikes etc. maybe we could see his day to day life with his pet maybe he likes painting or maybe collecting rocks. I wish we could learn more about him as a person and his self growth and healing journey. Anyways i still have so much more to say but i’m not gonna rant anymore.
I wanted to see them get married and get a glimpse at their life in the future. And most of all I wanted to see the house cailou girl and what she did with her newfound freedom. Maybe she travelled?
I liked the ending. Idk why ppl hate yujin. Yes he was a shitty guy at first but he was willing to change and look into himself putting aside his pride so that he could be with sian. But yul while he was with yujin was not ready to change. He was afraid of change in himself and in sian as well.
And also to ppl who are saying that sian should’ve “fixed” yul are crazy. You cannot “fix” a person. She did the right thing by not being with him.
Yul is a result of his surroundings and upbringing and that’s not his fault but it still does not excuse his behavior and crimes.
A lot of ppl don’t seem to be aware of how much stalking and obsession can be suffocating and can affect an individual’s mental health.
Sian is not obligated to “fix” yul. That’s not her job.
And I also don’t agree with ppl saying they wanted to see yul in a relationship in the ending.
Yul always seemed to be preoccupied with thoughts of other ppl to me. He always seemed to thinking of either sian or others and really didn’t let himself sit with his own self. It seemed like he used others as a means of distraction from confronting what lies inside him.
He needs to do a lot more of self reflection.
Even in the ending, he said that he does labor to distract himself. It did seem like he improved but not fully. He still has a long way to go.
I want yul to be content with himself. I want him to love himself and be feel lived by himself. Not love that he derives from others but just him. He seemed to be uncomfortable being with himself and i think there seems to be a lot of self loathing. I wish to see him truly happy not needing to depend on others. Of course I do wish that he has healthy relationships in his life with friends and family(probably not possible considering his parents). I hope he can walk with self esteem and smile brightly in the future without needing to depend on someone. I truly hope he’s able to find his own peace in his life.
I would be glad to read a slice of life webtoon about yul’s life. And maybe we could learn more about him. His interests, his likes and dislikes etc. maybe we could see his day to day life with his pet maybe he likes painting or maybe collecting rocks. I wish we could learn more about him as a person and his self growth and healing journey.
Anyways i still have so much more to say but i’m not gonna rant anymore.
Can you tell yul is my fav lol.