i accidentally liked Crymermaids comment about jihyun and how he aint 'that bad' and let me TELL YOU I DO NOT AGREE. what jihyun did was unforgivable, he knew what he was doing when he was hurting chinwoo, he raped him and abused him. i know people who have gone through severe abuse and trauma and they know how to treat other people. they know abuse is wrong and abusing a person is wrong. im not gonna be an abuse apologist. the fact anyone is is scary, idc if its fictional, people translate how they feel in real life to fiction. if youre digsusted and horrified by abuse, you would never be able to ship an abuser with an abuse victim. it makes me feel sick thinking it. or even try and justify the abusers actions. fiction reflects and has an effect on real life thinking. if kids see loads of fiction where toxic relationsips are normalised, then they will normalise it and it will translate to real life. ive seen the effects, some young people, some of my friends honestly do not realise they are in abusive relationships because of things seen in media, like men being pushy about sex or relationships even when someone rejcts advanaces. anyways, peace out and hate jihyun.
i accidentally liked Crymermaids comment about jihyun and how he aint 'that bad' and let me TELL YOU I DO NOT AGREE. what jihyun did was unforgivable, he knew what he was doing when he was hurting chinwoo, he raped him and abused him. i know people who have gone through severe abuse and trauma and they know how to treat other people. they know abuse is wrong and abusing a person is wrong. im not gonna be an abuse apologist. the fact anyone is is scary, idc if its fictional, people translate how they feel in real life to fiction. if youre digsusted and horrified by abuse, you would never be able to ship an abuser with an abuse victim. it makes me feel sick thinking it. or even try and justify the abusers actions. fiction reflects and has an effect on real life thinking. if kids see loads of fiction where toxic relationsips are normalised, then they will normalise it and it will translate to real life. ive seen the effects, some young people, some of my friends honestly do not realise they are in abusive relationships because of things seen in media, like men being pushy about sex or relationships even when someone rejcts advanaces. anyways, peace out and hate jihyun.