chicken soup's Topics (108)

Hey man, having someone who isn’t your partner go down on you is cheating regardless of the reason haha Don’t say it’s not cheating. That’s like knowing you did something wrong but because you justify it, it ain’t wrong anymore. All mistakes have reasons behind them.

I was going to say same thing. Actually author reflects the reality very well. I think in every relationship this kind of confusions are normal when you meet someone who is very different from your current partner but he/she still is very well going with you, except marriage. Marriage is my red line.

exactly!! i just feel like their relationship depends on their sex and that's it.

Everyone has their own bar of cheating or what and until where can it be cheating. The comments section was so stuck up on the fact that once u "cheat" you are a scum as if the fact that you are attracted to another human is just forbidden just cuz its OVER! Humans are much more complex creatures and a single act cannot determine a humans character is all Im saying. It all depends on ones morals and where they come from. ╮(￣▽￣)╭

I agree ! i mean marriage is a huge commitment and they bar is set high. and yes the author does show the emotions one could feel in real. I personally have been in a relations so compatible physically but so distant mentally and vice versa so this mana hits home haha (=・ω・=)

so much on sex that it feels like cole is a male nympho whos brain shuts down as soon as he gets his hourly doze of sex lmao. (●￣(ｴ)￣●)

gurlll agreed! cheating is considered when you have SEX with another person who isn't your partner or spouse! a kiss or a hand-job isn't considered cheating unless Brad fucked Cole, which he didn't. y'all stoopid.

oMg lmaoooo but like yeha, i agree

it's like they're sex partners instead of being in an actual relationship. that's not true love.

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Well where I come from, cheating could be emotional and physical which in this manga showed both. Why engage in an exclusive relationship with a single person if you want to do sexual and romantic things with other people and claim it isn’t cheating as long as it’s not sex? Just have tons of friends with benefits then. If you have an exclusive bf, you have to be responsible with your actions. Are you saying as long as it wasn’t sex you would be okay with your bf sucking someone else’s sick when you aren’t around? You would be okay with your bf saying they wanna date someone else other than you while in an exclusive relationship? You aren’t animals to just act on based on your instincts. You can decide whether to act on those impulsive desires. That what we call loose morals.

someone else’s dick*

First of all it was cole who made a move... with way Alex was he had already asked if he could screw other girls when they decided to date again. If my boyfriend were to ask me of course i would be bothered but who am i to stop him and will that really stop him if he isnt emotionally or physically satisfied with me? Isnt a relationship supposed to be for the peace of mind of both the partners? Isnt this like chaining people up which makes people cheat all the more and that why the most marriages or committed relationships fail? Im not saying you are wrong but its not right either since its based on ones own morals there is no right or wrong way in this! I have dated the Alex kind of guy and am currently with the Brad (not very compatible but passionate and kind) kind of guy! and let me tell you after a certain point just Sex inst enough. A relationship is build on past failures and pain and understanding and embracing them not isolation and guilt.

ikr! like when we say sex partners most people just imagine the hanky panky and bye bye! Alex is caring and all but there is absolutely no emotional support what so ever between them. something that most friends with benefits is all about! Sex and aftercare but thats all (〜￣△￣)〜

this is useless. im literally done with this bs. we're all entitled to our opinions- done. (even though yk we're right aha) (╬￣皿￣)凸

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Really?? It wasn't bad though.

oh no im being serious! for the first time i just wanted to quit midway but i fell for the characters so i stuck through it

The manga was dropped. It's a fellow BL fan who tried translation.otherwise it would have been left like that. They did it from Chinese raw file. It might differ in translating.U should actually be grateful.

I think they mean the story itself, not the translation

Uhm no the translation was in title. Read the lines then comment plz. They said they like dthe characters not the Translation.

I can’t see the title but anyway it’s possible to like characters without liking the story

If u can not see the title why are you arguing? And is it wrong of me to ask them not to do that cause it was going against the Goodwill of the person who wanted to finish the story which might also discourage other people too who want to help translate but cause of these remarks they won't?? Please be kinder . It doesn't cost much.

Dude,,,I’m not even arguing with you I’m just pointing things out, calm down I’m already way too kind for my own good anyway

Ciao.

I am actually grateful i think translators need more credit but this really made me feel weird. I think they did try their best though so kudos to them but i cant bring myself to read it again...which is not a big deal i guess... (=・ω・=)

um dont worry i didnt mean any harm it was just my point of view and im sure i made it clear i liked the characters cuz the story was good okay. It was just an opinion of mine and i prefer not to sugar coat but if i do like something im okay with admitting and stating it forward...Σ( ￣□￣||)

and of course people should decide for themselves by reading...yea that too..(￣∇￣")

Thank you for saying it directly. And yeah sugarcoating would have made it worse. Just that all the people are kind of in a panic now overall the world.. And we millennials are quite sensitive. I have seen so many people being discouraged over the time so I had to say it straight also.

yes, that's it! thanks for articulating what was putting me off.

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