I had a rather long thoughtout reply...but the shortnote is, Christ is a pedophile and Luca was too manipulated as a child to believe otherwise. One Luca got out on parole, Christ realized that Luca is no longer the kid he liked so he decided he couldn't do it. Christ claims he doesn't want to be with Jimmie that way, but as soon as Luca put on the glasses, he fucked Luca's brains out. So yes, I think he is still a pedophile and he obviously has a thing for Jimmie...but he's controlling himself and keeping himself from hurting him. But, that doesn't make it okay. Christ is a piece of shit. Luca is too, since he most definitely knew Christ would be expecting him to come back in first, so he let Jimmie walk inside before himself. In all honesty, Christ has nothing left to lose at this point, might as well pull the trigger.
Might as well pull the trigger on himself at that point. Pretty miserable existence..
I mean his life is basically over now anyway. It's either death or prison.
Well said..
I don't like Chowon. I sincerely doubt Chiron loves Dojun and is only trying to reconnect because the mother asked him to. If he was going to try anyway, it's probably because he couldn't find another high ranking alpha he deemed worthy of being with. He's after Dojun for status.
I don't think Nagisa is fucked up in the head nor is he masochistic.
I do think he cared deeply for Shichiku and that his love for Shichiku blinded him from what was going on.
I think that Nagisa is a kind, gentle person and he is extremely loving to those he cares about. But sometimes, people like that are naïve and love can actually cause you to overlook things important like the abuse he went through.
His love just simply allowed him to see Shichiku as what he wanted in a lover and despite being hurt, I think he overlooked the abuse. But this could also be due to the fact he has a bit of trauma in his past so he may have felt that It's okay to be someone's punching bag, even if it caused him a great deal of pain. He definitely needs to see a therapist and get some help.
Nagisa is a bit too forgiving in my opinion. But also, Shichiku had a psychological break in his sanity due to the stress and self-hatred as well as his mentality that he was never good enough. So in reality, Shichiku didn't really mean to abuse Nagisa and I sincerely believe that if he could think straight he wouldn't have hurt Nagisa. In the emd, Shichiku is more of a cheater rather than an abuser but I do think he has seen the error of his ways. As for Nagisa, he was only focused on the good and he focused on his feelings rather than the abuse. In a way, I think his subconscious may have blocked it out a bit in the end.
victims of abusive relationships are always like this, they remember mostly the good parts of it when in reality it was probably only 10% of it, it's really sad, but I'm happy in the end both of them helped each other and got to be in a healthy relationship from what we saw at least lol
People who are abused aren’t aware of the danger they’re in when they’re in an abusive relationship. They’d think the better of their abusers. If you’ve seen accounts of their tales and have worked in a non profit organisation for domestic abuse. They’re usually the ones who think “it’s fine, he doesn’t really mean it, he’ll get better someday, I’m here for him” and just let it happen.
exactly :/
I know how abuse works. I know that people who are abused only try to see the good. A lot of the times when people go back to their abusers it's because that's all they know. They're used to the routine of it. They're minds have often been molded to see that they are the ones at fault and that they wouldn't be abused if they hadn't done something to deserve it. After being abused they start to believe that the abuser isn't abusing them and that their abuser is the only person capable of loving them and that other people would not put up with their 'bullshit' like their abuser does. I was pointing out that Nagisa truly believes that Shichiku didn't mean to abuse him but now there is always a chance that Shichiku could lose his temper and hurt Nagisa again. From reading the manga, I think that was the first time Shichiku had lost his temper with Nagisa, but it definitely was not the first time he had abused someone. I know Nagisa has hope for a nice, healthy relationship but I don't think it is possible. Sure in the comic Shichiku may be able to change but realistically speaking, he would probably still have fits of anger here and there in which he hurts Nagisa.
I've been through and seen both mental and physical abuse both firsthand and secondhand several times throughout my life. My father and uncle(two of them to be exact), my ex's father, my ex, as well as my best friend's father were all abusers. And I've taken psychology classes to further extend my knowledge of the matter. People who abuse others actually have no self-confidence and they abuse in order to gain power over people. Often times people who abuse others usually only get worse each time they hurt someone. I'm a strong believer in giving people a second chance but people don't change. IMy know that sometimes a second chance is the last thing someone needs after hurting you, but I also know that once you're abused it's easy to believe it was because you had done something(because you have been conditioned to think that way) and that with this chance your abuser will stop. My homicide professor even states that the core of one's being does not change. Sure, people can stop abusing others but deep down every once in a while they still feel the need to abuse. Even if it's been years upon years of them no longer abusing people, at some point they may lose control and revert back to their old ways. You can change how you act and who you are but your original core is still there.
Haesoo is clearly someone who doesn't like to fall into a routine. He easily gets bored of lovers, throws them away, and then ends up with Joowon again. This has unconsciously become a routine, something I do believe he hates. But I do feel that there is a love still there in him for Joowon. I feel Haesoo is just a bit afraid to act on it due to how his mother reacted to catching them in the act. Now, I do feel that Haesoo may not care what his mother thinks but he could be avoiding Joowon just to try and keep his image protected, not just from the fans but from his mother as he more than likely doesn't want her to think he's disgusting lol. At this point I feel he has a crush on Taekyung but it's not going to last. After a few nights together he will also leave Taekyung and return to Joowon just as he always does. Taekyung is simply someone to keep him occupied at the moment, to simply make his life a bit more exciting but in the end, Joowon is who he still loves.
Or, I could be reading into it too much. Perhaps Haesoo is tired of the routine of going from lover to lover only to return to Joowon. Maybe he's sick of Joowon and his busy schedule and wishes to seek comfort, seek a new routine to share with Taekyung. But even if he does want a form of relationship, he will still get bored of Taekyung and go back to Joowon eventually. Or maybe he will just so happen to like Taekyung so much that he would like to continue having sex with him. Or, which I feel may be a bit more obvious is Haesoo may remain with both Taekyung and Joowon and just have both, use one when the other is away since I feel he has no problem doing that.
I think you’re reading into much sis. Unfortunately this comic isn’t catered torwards Jowoon. It’s catered torwards K.
Okay, so I love this comic, it's definitely my favourite. As for Jiwon(Alex) and DG... from the beginning we could all see it was a toxic form of relationship despite the fact they weren't actually dating. There have been a lot of times Alex has done or said something to hurt DG. Not only that, there was the time when he used to sex toys and straight up fucked him and physically hurt him. But in reality, DG did put himself in a situation he was bound to get hurt just so he could be around his idol. Which, that's cool and all, but he should have cut ties earlier but he was just too calm and nice I guess. When he revealed himself on the liveshow, that was wrong of DG but I do understand where he was coming from. He wanted people to no he and Alex were having sex but he was drunk and I believe if he were sober he wouldn't have done that.
Alex is now starting to see that he needs DG in order for his liveshow to continue and he mat even be starting to develop some feelings, whether they be actual wholesome feelings or just feelings he can use to take advantage of DG, but nevertheless I do feel that Alex is falling and/or has already fallen for DG and he just doesn't realize it. Right now, I do believe that DG is giving Alex what he deserves. He's being nonchalant about how he feels and is also reacting in a way that makes it seem he is completely over Alex despite the fact he totally still likes him. Which, this is causing a lot of confusion for Alex, and maybe even a little heartache that he no longer has DG practically worshipping him and/or following him around and doing what he says like an obedient puppy. In a sense, DG is making Alex feel how he felt all these times they were together. Alex is wanting for from DG, just as DG had wanted more from Alex in the beginning. The abrupt behaviour change is destroying Alex from the inside out and I am absolutely living for it. It's honestly what he deserves.
I understand Alex doesn't want to catch feelings because of his past experience but that doesn't exactly give him a right to be a sullen jerk.
I understand the uke was in heat and Dojin wants the baby and that's all fine. But I don't really like when people just use someone for their money. I read this comic because I liked it but now the uke really does make me sick with how he uses people.
same here tbh, at first I was kinda able to deal with the behaviour of the uke but now the more money hungry he gets and the way he uses dojin just makes me sad and mad at the same time.
I really liked the story and the characters but the memes are fucking fantastic