God theyre so annoying. She always has that miserable expression on and that "beaten wife" aura. Like god, stand up for yourself. You're what, 30? Goddamn, just live your life. It's such a stupid situation too. So her father wanted her to date that mafia guy. But mother didn't. Now she fears them both and want to appease them both? Why complicate this shit by doing what both want? Just leave that family goddamn, you can support yourself.
The mafia guy - make up your damn mind. Treat her like a human being. Be direct and tell her what you intend to do with her. Wanna date? Marry? Fuck her some more and proceed to pay alimony for the kid? Why torture her with your childish whims and outbursts which is making her more anxious? Y'all too old for this shit. It's like it's their first time in a relationship and they're overwhelmed