
The fastest way to spot a BL fetishizer? Simply watch how they react to female characters.
The chapter: Haesol and Yeonwoo doing the exact same thing and acting the same exact way.
The comments: I cannot believe Haesol would do/say that! She is such a hypocrisy!
Like, I wish y’all would just be honest with yourselves and say you’re misogynistic. Just be honest and say you came here for the BL vibes, and that you hate being reminded that the love interest is not in fact a guy, but a girl.
So you try and pick apart everything about her (in spite of the fact that she has done things that are no different than what any other main character has done), all while glossing over Yeonwoo and Junhyuk’s negative traits in an effort to show why “this should’ve been a BL instead, because Haesol is a bad person”.

The quickest way to spot a bl fetishizer is by clicking on their profile n ur profile isnt looking too good, not to mention the main reason people are upset isn't because she's a girl it's because she's being very demandant about prying into Yeonwoos secrets when he clearly said he didn't want to but in the earlier chapters when Yeonwoo asked Haesol abt personal matters, he respected her wishes and decided not to pry

Wtf are you even talking about? The last like 15 chapters were about Yeonwoo’s SA and bullying, of course people will feel some sort of way when a character that has yet to get their own backstory starts asking for details. This is also made worse by the fact Yeonwoo is Gen trying to reconcile with her and she’s being flat. Like don’t blame people on being anti-woman, this is how I know y’all don’t read BL cuz the comments would’ve been 10x worse in support of Yeonwoo

Honestly you're so right. So many people expect Haesol to be perfect (which in my opinion would make her a boring character) and act like the author hasn't shown over and over again that she struggles to understand emotions.
Her way of communicating is very direct but that doesn't mean it's bad. It can just be a bit much for more sensitive characters like Yeonwoo but might also be exactly what he needs.
She hasn't hurt him any more than Junhyuk has. She's literally bled for him at times. In fact she always tried to be there for him but Yeonwoo repeatedly chose the person he's more familiar with (understandably). And then that same person broke him heart by trying to cut ties with him. Of course she's going to be frustrated after all of that.

Yeah, exactly, so people have an issue when she does something wrong, like her hypocrisy in the most recent chapter. And some people really don't like her which I don't agree with but it comes down to personal opinion and is definitely not indicative of a fetishiser or misogynist. Also, Junhyuk and Haesol are not comparable because they have been around him for different amounts of time and mean different things to Yeonwoo.
… a moment of silence for the uke…