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Well I mean we are getting more Abt his fam but dang, we had 100 main story chapters and I just find out he has siblings??

I'm sorry for disliking with my fat fingers and zero dexterity

Most yaoi authors are women who have only a superficial fetishied understanding of gay relationships and gay sex. They are writing something they don't know for the views. To them bottoming is equal femininity and so physicals attributes and mindset reflect that. Glad that's not the case here.

thats tradfujos, we are entering the new yaoi-bl era rn. Theres like a lot of new yaoi mangas and BL manhwas that are twink top x vv masc bottom out there.

its pretty common in any manga and even real life for the top to be bigger than the bottom in gay and straight relationships so idk id say its more common bc its more common and not assume that authors that make their livelihood off creating manga wouldnt know anything about gay relationships just because they are straight women. ╮(￣▽￣)╭

As a gay man I know from my experience and that of all in the community I have talked to. I can safely say I know more than any woman no matter own much of an ally she is. I would agree those authors mean well and know more than general population but they are stuck in the bubble, learn and reinforce with mangas. What percentage of them have gay friends or have gone and talked in person with a gay men even just for research? To make better stories? Not many given the ridiculous characters. You can NEVER tell from someone's physique what they like in bed. I don't know why you would mention straight here, yes men are generally bigger and taller then women but that what I was referring to, they transpose straight paradigm to 2 men and think which is the girl (1rst problem) and the ''girl'' is the smaller one (2e problem). So you kinda made my point.

If we don’t want people assuming things based on stereotypes, then we also shouldn’t assume that someone’s gender or background automatically makes them incapable of understanding.

And yes, you’re right that you can’t tell what someone likes in bed just by looking at them but that’s not just a mistake women make. That’s a stereotype people of all genders fall into. A lot of toxic top gays assumed just because its a twink, they think he bottoms.

If we don’t want people assuming things based on stereotypes, then we also shouldn’t assume that someone’s gender or background automatically makes them incapable of understanding.

And yes, you’re right that you can’t tell what someone likes in bed just by looking at them but that’s not just a mistake women make. That’s a stereotype people of all genders fall into. A lot of toxic top gays assumed just because its a twink, they think he bottoms.

I completely agree as a straight woman I would never fully understand what it means to be male or gay you are right there. The size difference comment was wrong as well, even tho i have seen multiple gay couple with an obvious difference in size that does not mean that the smaller one is the bottom so i do agree that i am partial wrong there by assuming that gay men follow the same idea of heterosexuals.