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and he realizes that he wrongfully accused and smacked poor Na-Kyum. I hope he'll feel like shit. hehe

I want this to happen sooooon

When I saw the first extra I hoped it´s flash-forward and the story continues..
Taeyul has a lot of issues to deal with, locking somebody is really sick, the president..... didn´t do anything wrong, he was in an impossible situation..

Cheating on his wife is sick. Neglecting his son is sick. Both Taeyul and Yoon have a lot of issues to deal with. Lol how could you even say that Yoon did nothing wrong? He had a choice, whether to choose his beloved Soohan or his wife and son but he chose both apparently. That’s called infidelity. He was never in an impossible situation. He was being greedy in wanting everything but it led to him losing everything. I can’t believe people aren’t even caring about the wife and son. Soohan also has a lot of issues to begin with. He knew that Yoon had a wife and is still maintaining a relationship with his wife but Soohan still wanted to cling to a married man. Everyone had a choice and no one was in an impossible situation.

Well, all of them had issues, and I don´t remember it well, but he was in a marriage that was not working, basically never worked, he wanted to leave and his wife didn´t let him leave- yakuza style?? I really don´t remember it much, but as far as I understand from this manga/hwa/hua crash course about arranged marriages (of the rich ones) and Asian society, might be not the easiest thing to get divorced.. It doesn´t really feel llike cheating when the only thing that keeps them together is a piece of paper and their families..
I am not trying to argue here, just saying that I would like the story to continue so that all of them could grow etc., there´s a lot of potential for that..

Since all of them had issues, why did you even say he did nothing wrong? Why did you say that he was in an impossible situation. That’s clearly a contradiction to what you’re currently saying. It is INFIDELITY when two people are married and the other had an affair with someone else out of the relationship, whether it's physical or emotional. In terms of Yoon and his wife’s relationship, their marriage was for benefits and they had mutual agreement to be married.

Yoon had wanted to divorce his wife however his wife refused because it was a beneficial relationship and possibly because she had feelings towards him. If Yoon had really wanted to break out of the marriage, he could have done so forcefully by calling his lawyer and go to court with the proper divorce procedures and bear the burden of his consequences. I’m also not trying to argue. It’s just upsetting that you’re lifting all the blame from Yoon’s shoulders when he’s also in the fault.

I was referring to the final "battle" between him and his wife when I said impossible.
I don´t feel much sympathy for her for being so forceful. But again, different culture, she is protecting her status.. The were both cought up in that mess. I don´t think we can understand how hard it might be somewhere else to act on "what I want to do". Apparently it is still quite common to have arranged marrieges for gays to pretend you´re normal etc, the richer the family the pressure is stronger, something hard to imagine here..
I don´t blame him for having a relationship, the way it was presented it was clear (I believe) there is currently no relationship between him and his wife. None. No feelings, no sex, no understanding, they don´t live together etc.etc. So I felt pretty sorry for him. He did what he thought was the best for his lover and he was the only one losing everything.
With a prospect of living a life he didn´t want next to somebody who is ... I don´t know. I would not be able to look at her.
I probably liked him the best, the "black" guy is difficult, and the one in between is also complicated, but it actually made the story good. That none of them was black or white. Just the jealousy part was a bit too "yaoi" overboard.
But I would be happy if the story continued. But this is also good. Continue living with what you have. Even if faulty. :) /But then again, I am so sorry for Yoon, he got the worst deal/

Didn't Yoon got into the marriage cuz it was beneficial for his career? I’m pretty sure it’s not for covering up about him being gay. To me, it’s still a relationship cuz they are still legally husband and wife despite not having any physical relationship. It’s actually not impossible to divorce his wife. He could have done it forcefully considering that he could hire a lawyer and bring the divorce matters to court if the other doesn’t consent to it. I’ve heard of multiple ways to divorce if the other person doesn’t want to. I know in Yoon’s perspective that he’s trying his best to keep his beloved by his side however I can’t excuse him for his infidelity nor can I excuse Soohan for knowing about him being a married man but still wanting to be with him.

Tbh I wasn’t fond of Soohan the most here actually. I’m usually seen arguing about Yoon but actually the one I disliked the most is Soohan. Tbh, I thought of him as a bitch. I don’t know who’s the “difficult black-haired guy” you’re referring to but I think you’re talking about Taeyul while I’m not quite sure about “the complicated in between person” here. I do feel sympathy for all the characters since all of them have their own faults with Yoon commiting infidelity despite having a wife and a son (doesn’t matter if it’s blood-related or not), Soohan who knew that Yoon was a married man but still cling to him, Taeyul who had locked Soohan up in a room, Yoon’s wife who tried to murder her husband’s mistress (Soohan) but failed in the end. I’m quite content with the ending actually. I’m just here to let you know that everyone did something wrong and it’s not fair to exclude Yoon out of it cuz he played a big role in the situation.

ok, no, I didn´t say he was covering up.. Just an example of a society we can hardly imagine.. Let´s agree to disagree on the chaeting part..
But I absolutely agree that "Nosh", Soohan is the least likeable person :D there. (Out of the three guys). I actually thought it was good he ended up with Taeyul but I would love to see Yoon to get a chance to have a relationship he would be happy with.. :))
Have a nice day :)

people aren't caring about the wife and kid because the marriage was forced without love involved + both of them living seperately and the kid isn't even his. He probably has no connection to it anyway.
Sure you can call it cheating since he is officially married but the relationship was never real imo. And how am I supposed to feel sorry for a manipulating, blackmailing, egocentric bitch. Sorry, no.
And by no choice they mean: Yoon chose divorce and Soohan but that bitch threatend to harm/kill Sohaan and forcefully bind Yoon to her. Yoon is a tragic figure in this story considering he never got a happy ending. He truly loved Soohan as how I see it.

Yep, I started re-reading and I find out it wasn´t his kid, she married below her status because of the kid... I feel the same way about it...
Yoon is a tragic figure.. When they are on the plane.. How do you live on like that?? :(

I'm not sure :(, I wish in the end he would at least be free from his wife somehow...
Maybe someday the wife makes the right decision. A divorce would be also best for her as Yoon said. She would surely find someone who really loves her.

You know, that´s why I was happy when I saw updates, I thought the story will continue, all the characters and the story deserves development..
The wife crying at the airport, that is a completely new element... A step forward I guess..