Bestie, don't take that "friend's" words to heart. They could just be confused about it and not understand it, but that's not the point. They went too far invalidating how you feel, good job on blocking them btw lol. I'm usually not good with coming up with words of comfort / comforting ppl, but I'm gonna try ig SO don't let anyone else try to te......
Um tw for the beggining, and I would just honestly ignore the, cause what they said was disgusting and plain rude. You aren't obligated to date ANYONE you don't want, ESPECIALLY if you have trauma with that gender, and them belittling that and making it look like you're using it as an excuse is so disturbing and disgusting, I'm glad you blocked the......
identity crisis