haraetha December 24, 2024 3:07 pm

I think you should just be clear and set it straight that you won't associate with him anything beyond friends. It's your life, why're you settling with someone you have a choice not to and don't want to because of pity and a thread of attachment? He is an important part of your memory but that doesn't mean he has to be apart of everything following. And why are you so sure divorcing him after a year will change anything? He'll only become more outrageous with his antics and obsession with you. The cycle will repeat. If you keep dragging this out, you will eventually be tired enough to end the relationship as well. Why put yourself through all this struggle if the ending will be the same? I'm only saying this with the assumption that you hold no romantic feelings for him btw. Go tell him straight that you don't want to continue whatever you guys are anymore and that you are going to meet new people. Say you're happy that he's in your life, but you don't want him here as a partner. Either he respects your decision, or you walk away because this is only creating stress for you. About his family also, I'm certain they will be sad but will definitely not force you to stay with "Jayce" because of their personal feelings. Btw this will also happen when you divorce him. All you're doing is delaying this process. I hope you have a clue about what to do now :)

Will delete this if op doesn't see

haraetha December 24, 2024 3:05 pm

I think you should just be clear and set it straight that you won't associate with him anything beyond friends. It's your life, why're you settling with someone you have a choice not to and don't want to because of pity and a thread of attachment? He is an important part of your memory but that doesn't mean he has to be apart of everything following. And why are you so sure divorcing him after a year will change anything? He'll only become more outrageous with his antics and obsession with you. The cycle will repeat. If you keep dragging this out, you will eventually be tired enough to end the relationship as well. Why put yourself through all this struggle if the ending will be the same? I'm only saying this with the assumption that you hold no romantic feelings for him btw. Go tell him straight that you don't want to continue whatever you guys are anymore and that you are going to meet new people. Say you're happy that he's in your life, but you don't want him here as a partner. Either he respects your decision, or you walk away because this is only creating stress for you. About his family also, I'm certain they will be sad but will definitely not force you to stay with "Jayce" because of their personal feelings. Btw this will also happen when you divorce him. All you're doing is delaying this process. I hope you have a clue about what to do now :)

If you don't see this I'll just delete it

haraetha June 17, 2024 4:19 pm

Toxic x toxic? On a somewhat equal level

haraetha September 28, 2023 5:58 pm

I'm looking for bl recommendations where the seme chases after uke such as "serious joke" and "the third ending" (๑•ㅂ•)و✧ please share your treasuries

    ellie-chan September 28, 2023 6:54 pm

    lucky paradise is the one i can think of at the top of my head

    haraetha September 29, 2023 3:48 am
    lucky paradise is the one i can think of at the top of my head ellie-chan

    Thankss

    ellie-chan September 29, 2023 4:46 am

    no problem. heads up tho, i personally actually didn't like the story and had to drop it haha

    haraetha September 29, 2023 8:14 am
    no problem. heads up tho, i personally actually didn't like the story and had to drop it haha ellie-chan

    Loll I heard it was a love triangle, is that why?

    ellie-chan September 29, 2023 6:17 pm

    that but also some shit goes down 3/4 of the way that had to deal with the seme's mental and it became too much for me.

haraetha September 27, 2023 5:27 am

Hi does anyone have any recommendations for romance that are so terribly sad or have made you cry uncontrollably? Preferably no open endings (⌒▽⌒) thank you

haraetha September 26, 2023 4:32 pm

Any recommendations on romance stories where both really love each other to the point of it hurting (such as "my perverted stalker")? Like their heart hurts from how much love they have. Not sure if this is the correct explanation but please feel free to recommend even just moderate ones ╥﹏╥

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