i've seen more than needed so many straight parents who barely take care of their children. they're no better. i think it doesn't matter whether their parents straight or gay or asexual or what, as long they're properly loved and taken care of.
i feel like almost no one have the right to say "you're dragging kids into it" to any family adopting kids bc it's not like they're gonna do anything to make these children happier if they stay in the orphanage anyway. they don't care about the children, they just care to bitch on the parents and feel superior about being "normal" or something