Deez's Things

Call me slow or dumb but does yaoi normalizes horrible semes since Asian countries treat their women like total shit and that is projected in most sex scenes? I feel like finding straight or Yuri romances without sa is easier than yaoi specially since sex scenes are such a big part of yaoi, these behaviors are much more present. It’s genuinely difficult finding any yaoi without dubious consent but it makes much more sense if the women writing thse BLs are basing it off their own or generally the woman experience of being with a man. It always seemed strange to me as a gay guy that these sex roles are so strictly implemented and decide which man has power over the other but it makes more sense seeing it from their perspective

I’ve been reading yaoi for 9 years by now and frankly I’m dead tired of seeing two dudes fucking most of the story instead of actual romantic development. I honestly don’t have anything against sex scenes it’s just kind of frustrating when I think I’m diving into a good story and all of a sudden I’m jump scared with 3 consecutive chapters of a dick slapping into some dudes asshole and not having any actual progress in the story. Seeing as this is still present in a lot of recent popular yaoi I wonder if anyone else feels this way.
Of course I know there’s yaoi that isn’t like this but I’ve definitely feel like the majority of yaoi follows this format… and don’t tell me to “just read shounen ai” trust me, I tried

Or is it kind of hard to read manga scenes with anal penetration while taking a shit
Like idk

How many flags ya got bitches

The power I have as an androgynous enby, bitch I can pull in gays and lesbians any day