It's a bit of a slow day for me so don't judge me too hard for asking....but are they like exclusive now? cause before they even discussed anything she said that she wouldn't be doing anything with her ex. then he responded by saying that he wants to give "us" a try. So like are they fuck buddies, exclusive fuck buddies, dating, or exclusive without a label???
I was reading on this spoiler forum and I think I'm going to drop this series. I'm not telling anyone what to do so pls don't get upset with me bc of this. This entire story is almost completely angst. The whole "why don't you love me" thing goes on for SO LONG!!! [SPOILERS AHEAD] He finds out about him having the same face as theodore and her being martina. He loves her a lot but she feels that way towards Theodore and he thinks that he's okay with it at firs, but things reach a boiling point. He can't take the pain anymore and he asks her for a divorce and he says that he already found another woman with the same blood that she had that can turn him back into a human. She asks him to change his mind about the divorce but he doesn't. She asks him to wait until after this banquet to divorce her and he agrees. The woman that he brought ends up showing up and her name is Chloe. She's from the countryside so she thinks this is her opportunity to live a better life and her and her family were under the impression she was brought in to be a mistress bc he was tired of his wife...so she waits for him in his bed wearing the night gown. He doesn't do anything with her bc that wasn't what he brought her for. the next day the FL asks her why she was in the ML's room and Chloe tries to answer ambiguously but the FL knows better. The FL asks the ML for a final kiss but the ML refuses bc he doesn't want to risk changing his mind about the divorce bc of a kiss. While the FL was sleeping, the ML kissed her to fulfill her request and Chloe sees this. Chloe is pretty much fed up with their drama bc she knows that she will never have a place in the duchy bc it's obvious these two love each other so she just packs her stuff. Before she leaves she tells the FL that they should stop fighting and just admit they love each other (honestly i have so much respect for chloe). There was this incident before all the chloe stuff where the ML got injured and they got into a fight about her not loving him and she ends up yelling at him saying that she hates him....wow. He leaves and turns into his beast form and normally the wolf would run up to the FL when he sees her but this time he doesn't (which is unusual bc he normally doesn't have memories of what happened in his other form unless it's a strong emotion such as the fear he felt towards the sword even in his human form. that just shows how much she hurt him). Also, the ML is indeed the reincarnated Theodore but he doesn't have his memories unlike the FL. He never regains his memories from his past life btw [END SPOILER] Anyways there's a lot more drama and angst and it's too much for me personally. I know it'll be a happy ending but I still can't handle all of this. I just wanted to share if there are any other ppl who might read this comment and also don't enjoy this much angst.
U know..... at first I was like u too. I thought this would be sooo tiring. Like Chloe, I thought I'd be so fed up with the drama and angst.
But then I realized, it was because we read and understand both perspectives that make us tired and be like: "ugh u love each other so stop the angst and just kiss!"
When I try to put myself on their shoes...
I am as Tina, and dealing with betrayal and past trauma. Will this Theo be any different?
I am as Theo, and dealing with brokenheart as I am only a substitute for her past lover. When will she ever love me as I am?
I think I'll do the same too because I can't read people's true mind and heart. I can't be 100% sure about other's inner self. And it will greatly affecting my choices..
Their problem is one. Cowardice. The things that will make a difference:
If Tina chooses to take a step forward; stop being terrified and controlled by her past.
If Theo chooses to stop second-guessing and brave enough to tell her "I love you and it hurts me if you keep seeing him in me."
But again, it is a hard thing to do.. I think I will get tired watching them too.. But I kinda want to perceived their feelings like real life and try to understand them more.
Ah, a note. Please do not misunderstand. I am not dissing or correcting you, dear.. It was just an opinion ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ
Because it's like you said him being upset about her not caring about him. Like they already had that conversation and she even said she'd give him companionship. Which she has been in her own way. But then in this one he try's to make her feel guilty for not caring about him still. And it's like she never had obligation to do so. They did not marry for love so him constantly doing that's alittle annoying if I'm being honest. And then I feel like each chapter is repeating the same flow. He does that she comforts him. The next day or two hes doting on her. They finally decide to leave and then boom some drama happens. And it's right infront of there house again. Like dude what are his knights even for decoration?! Its just alittle annoying to me. Plus hearing it's all antsy even after that chapter made it not worth it for me to read. I've been in a low point of my life in a young age. And I'm finally healing from that. so I haven't been drawn to sad or depressing mangas like I used to be because I'm recovering from my own demons and depression. And when I first started this one I thought it was more on the funny side cuz some things that happened in the beginning made me laugh.
I agree that cycle was really irritating for me as well. It's like "why don't you love me"...i'm going to avoid you....."why are you avoiding me"....attempt to talk it out....continuing to dote on the FL.....gets hurt....."why are you avoiding me"...and it repeats. I'm glad you're feeling better and are recovering. I don't mind depressing stuff but I just don't like things that are too angsty bc then I get frustrated espically in this scenario bc it's just the same thing happening over and over again.
Not that you asked but here are some reccs for stuff that isn't too depressing....
- A villian is a good match for a tyrant
- Say ah, the golden spoon is entering
- The fake princess' op bunny (this one is rlly good imo! i love the ml and fl it's soo cute)
- I'm a killer but I'm thinking of living as a princess
- I became the villain's wife (this is more comedic so it's RLLY light hearted)
- How to get rid of my dark past (despite the title it's not depressing)
- The symbiotic relationship between the rabbit and the black panther
- Extra doesn't want to be overly obsessed
- I'm a stepmother, but my daughter is just too cute (It does deal with some heavy topics but it's focused around healing from past trauma and not enduring it; TW: ED, R@pe)
- Eminence Grise Female Lead Is Trying to Make Me Her Stepmom (super cute story w/ a good dad)
- I'll just live on as a villianess (best main couple with a healthy relationship that's too cute)
idk if you'll use that but eh i just wanted to put that out there
Manhwa tend to be less dramatic but considering the direction that their relationship is part of the main plot and how it's been going so far...i think the angst is pretty much going to stay the same (like on the same level that it's at right now). This constant back and forth that they've been having is going to continue and I personally just can't handle that. I would probably be able to endure it more if there was something else but it's the same "why don't you love me" conflict that just keeps going on and on. I get frustrated easily and I just can't keep reading that...if that makes sense
I'm reading the first three you reccomend. But I haven't heard of the others so I'll definitely check them out thank you! And I'm glad we are of the same opinion. Because yeah this became just a rinse and repeat cycle since he became human. Like honestly '-kindawishheneverdid- might be an unpopular opinion but to me it was better when he wasn't.
for those who's chapter 26 isn't loading...read it here
https://s2manga.com/manga/taming-the-lady/chapter-26/
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