literally everyone but sangyoon understood how dangerous he is when sangyoon himself should've done something before everyone it's getting on my nerves how passive he is in this situation
i feel so bad for kyle ): riley seems like a shitty friend tbh
i feel like seme isn't what he presents himself as but i hope i'm wrong i wanna see them happy ( ≧Д≦)
give jooin a bit of a time to process everything jeez he must be feeling overwhelmed
i mean tru but he should at least talk to cain a bit it’s fine taking a break from friends/family but you gotta at least provide some context so you dont leave them in the dust imo
Overwhelmed with what? The guy who's been a asshole to him this entire time and yet he still keeps running back to him only to get it confirmed again that the guy is an asshole? ╮(￣▽￣)╭
lol when was he an asshole? i feel like y'all are forgetting how they met. jooin didn't know him at all at the start but cain acted like he knew him already. of course he was a bit cold at the start because cain's behavior wasn't normal. like put yourself in his shoes a little ^^
yup i see your point =] sometimes tho, people act with their emotions. i think jooin was experiencing too many heavy emotions at that time. that's why he kinda ran away. i think (and hope) that he will talk with cain about it after he processes what happened =>
Ilyan and his life reminds me of mine =[ even his father ahhhhh that's why some comments saying like father like son made me incredibly sad idk
i don't really like yohan i'm sorry would drop this if it wasn't for the uke )): waiting for the development tho
Wow we are the opposites. I dislike Jihyun, the Uke lmao.
How do you want Yohan to change then? Be all cold like those other semes?
Overall I think I like the other soon to be couple more than main (Yohan’s older bro and glasses dude)
he's prying way too much like if jihyun wanted him to know about his past he would tell him. why did he go to a girl knowing jihyun disliked her because of her stalkery behavior. he's an adult he should act like one ^^ communication is important specially if you want a relationship with that person. breaking their trust is not the way to go. why do you hate jihyun tho?
“He’s an adult, he should act like one”. Not everyone has the same experiences and there is no such thing as adult personality, it’s called maturity. And I don’t think that applies to him that much because once again, Yohan has no experience in dating.
Just cause Jihyun dislikes the girl doesn’t mean Yohan has to ignore, he owes nothing to Jihyun.
I sort of dislike Jihyun since he’s basically doing the same thing as he did to his last ex, publicly yelling at him without heart him out.
“Communication is important”, I agree and well Jihyun broke that by running away. He will never really help himself and his trauma if he continues to run away.
Yohan do not have to go after someone who doesn’t wanna talk and cut things off with him just cause he wanted to know. Jihyun could’ve properly denied.
And Yohan didn’t even do anything too extreme as “prying way too much”, it was just one time lmao. And other stuff he did won’t hurt anyone, he went to the girl to find out how she had his info, I don’t think it’s to find out about jihyun’s past.
After Jihyun cut things off with Yohan, he is stalking him as well by putting on a disguise which Yohan never did when “stalking” him. Pretty strange huh. “Making sure Yohan isn’t with others”, like he wanted privacy so bad he cut things off with Yohan, why come back?
Hope he at least apologizes and explains so Yohan would understand. You can’t just understand a person who won’t tell you shit.
Hearing him out *
Bro same good luck to you and me tho these people are hating on the uke
Not everyone. I don’t HATE him, I just dislike him. Hate is a strong word. Hopefully both characters get development, Jihyun getting therapy before going into a relationship and Yohan not being a pushover anymore.
You’re right I would change hating to disliking sorry. Also I see where you’re coming from but Jihyun believes he’s too disgusting for him, he doesn’t look at him like a pushover and he doesn’t treat him like that. It’s your opinion but I think tagt they need communication If they just talk I think then you would see that Jihyun just needs to think about others POVS and talk
Yes exactly. They need communication, I sort of disliked Jihyun cause he just cut things off within seconds after yelling. But hopefully they get serious developments.
Jihyun thinking himself is disgusting is definitely a form of some sort of trauma in relationship with paranoia/anxiety Yep.
I hope author at least gets Jihyun therapy..it’ll make everything a lot more better and healthier.s
trauma wouldn't be hard for people if it was easy to face. he was clearly abused sexually and verbally. "he will never help himself and his trauma if he continues to run away" :// running away IS a trauma response. also yes i still think yohan should've just wait for jihyun to be ready to talk about it. it's not easy. his first response was to learn the truth from a girl that stalked jihyun. yes he doesn't owe anything to jihyun but jihyun also doesn't owe anything to yohan. he told him that it's a sex partners thing multiple times, they are not even dating and jihyun made sure that yohan understood. and she went to the girl to learn about jihyun still. it doesn't matter if he has no history of dating it's just common sense.
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Well apparently common sense doesn’t exist in BL sometimes. It happens. I never said Jihyun owes anything to Yohan, but if Jihyun wants him back, the least he can do is apologize for cutting things off without explaining, that’s a decent thing to do as a human.
Also Jihyun still need therapy. He’s just gonna ruin his bonds more, unhealthy relationships etc.
I also stand my mark about saying running away won’t help anyone, yes it may be a trauma response but still, it won’t help anyone by running away and that’s a fact.
And I don’t think Yohan would’ve waited for someone who cut things off with him, you can’t really blame him for not understanding since Jihyun didn’t want to explain. Knowledge doesn’t come from just anywhere, either someone has to tell you or get that info from another source.
Omg i wish i could like all your comments
I agreee with u
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Well as someone who has had a psychologist and has family members that went to psychologists with me, they don’t help. I’m not saying they all don’t work but sometimes there are things that don’t get better until speaking about it with a significant other or sometimes just don’t help. They can even get worse—speaking as someone who’s been there and if you don’t agree that’s fine but you don’t she to reply saying that
Same here, I have had therapists and psychologists over the years and I ended my service with one in 2018 since she kept siding with my parents.
I agree that it can get even worse. The good thing is that it works for others even if not for you and some others, it’s better that it works sometimes than never.
I’ve gotten used to handling things by myself, mental health isn’t taken seriously in our culture tbh. It’s almost non existent.
If anyone disagrees with you about this, they never experienced this type of shit then.
Yeah I know what you mean
I’m a little too tired to write my heart into this but I definitely know what you mean and can relate
why do authors give r@pists or abusers a sad story then expect everyone to be okay with their relationship with the mc immediately? like no, im not gonna be okay with what he did no matter what he went through and your character shouldn't too?