Laying here waiting to see if I come across any spoilers but all I see is people going back and forth about a manhwa that’s isn’t REAL
I’m not jumping ship just yet... I don’t trust Cain with my precious baby Jooin(づ￣ ³￣)づ
We’ve already established the fact that MD is petty asf and that Chanwoo makes poor choices when he’s choosing his men and that he’s been abused.
I’ve seen a lot of ppl in the comment section talking about MD should know verter bc he’s older. Being older does not make you wiser and it doesn’t mean that you’ve reached a level of maturity that allows you to see the bigger picture.
Yes MD wasn’t being professional in the last few scenes and yes Chanwoo was uncomfortable. MD should’ve maintained his professionalism and Chanwoo could’ve said the safe word. Neither of them did any of that.
I made a previous post saying that MD was the victim but now I’m looking at it, none of them are. Chanwoo needs to work on himself and MD needs to know that not because he likes Chanwoo means that Chanwoo has to him back. They BOTH need to work on themselves tbh.
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Ah I meant to like it!! ;w;
i agree - what MD is doing rn isn’t abusive so much as it’s shortsighted and petty. chanwoo is also being petty. it’s an issue of course but it doesn’t seem like abuse, just unprofessional
Exactly
Why is almost everyone in the comment section sorry for chanwoo? I mean he did just meet the guy and wanted to start a relationship and fuck him before finding out who he is. If anyone is the victim here it’s MD.
Because. As a free person. He . Has. A. Right. To. Sleep. And . Be. With. Anyone. He. Wants. This simple.
Yea so why he didn’t just say no or the safe word? He plays along so sorry but this guy is old enough to know what that means.
I see it more like yeah he's fucked up making a potential hook up meet up with someone who confessed to you, but revenge sex ain't never the way to make someone realize they love you back. I get that chanwoo is old enough to make his decisions but at this point I see mind games and pride on the line and it's crossed the line of what bdsm is. He was so uncomfortable having a forced kiss on him, and when he said stop getting slapped that hard Is, Woah..
Why. Do. You. keep. Replying. To. My. Post? It’s almost creepy.
Chanwoo doesn’t owe MD anything. Chanwoo wasn’t even dating MD so he can do whatever he wants. MD isn’t a victim.
Exactly my point.
He didn't use safe word while being strangled to death. He isn't aware of his limits.
And what MD is doing right now doesn't have anything to with BDSM.
no md is not entitled to chanwoo’s feelings that’s not how that works. he shouldn’t be coercing chanwoo into doing things he doesn’t want to because md is mad chanwoo didn’t want to date him. this scene was giving me creepy and slightly rapey vibes tbh. the line of consent is being toed here to should definitely be criticizing both parties but mostly md for trying to get revenge when chanwoo is very emotionally vulnerable.
I don’t know anything about bdsm nor do I wish to know, I’m just saying that his bad decisions and crappy choices in men led him to where he is today that’s all.
Well, he can still walk out. It's not like MD's gonna deny him the right to decline, but that would mean the end of their arrangement.
Ofc he is. Chanwoo isn’t obligated to return MD’s feelings but come on, Chanwoo know ole dude likes him. Why would he go out of his way to introduce a potential boyfriend to MD knowing that MD might get hurt.
Because your comments stems from dangerous mindsets, especially around BDSM play and romantic relationships. MD isn’t the victim. He has the upper hand in the relationship. He’s a grown ass man. His relationship with Chanwoo has always been platonic but he allowed his feelings take control when Chanwoo NEVER owed him anything. Just because he has feelings for Chanwoo, doesn’t mean Chanwoo needs to reciprocate? If he can’t handle that, then he should’ve professionally ended it with Chanwoo.
They only replied to your post once, look at the usernames smh
Chanwoo literally puts himself in a position that allowe his emotions to be used against him and that’s nobody fault but his
Just for my understand - so being slapped with a whip or stuff is okay but not with the hand? Or is the face the problem? But anyway why he said it’s okay then and didn’t told him it’s going too far? I mean he is choosing to go along.
who knows, people love to victimize chanwoo ╮(￣▽￣)╭ for no reason.
I totally agree and said the same in my post, 1. chanwoo was going to have sex with that guy without knowing who the fuck he is. 2. he dare to bring him to MD without asking if he agree or not, so he should pay for his mistakes. 3. he agree to stay after giving the choice to leave. HE AGREE TO IT!
I get that he made crappy decisions but he should still be respected as a sub in this assumed s&m play if he doesn't want to consent to someone he can't be forced to do it. MD ain't respecting him even tho it's part of the contract. I think the reason why ppl are upset with MD or even uncomfortable with this scene isn't cause they want to defend Chanwoo & what he's done. But because he goes way past the rules of bdsm. Like I'd never imagine MD doing this. Them mind games is so creepy.
Chanwoo has been in abusive relationships, remember? He didn’t even use the safe word in the previous chapters? It’s obvious there are some underlying issues
I never said that Chanwoo should date MD. I said in a previous post that MD is the only one out there for him. However the choice is up Chanwoo to date who he feels like. I’m not justifying MD’s behavior but Chanwoo deserves everything he’s getting rnw. He allowed himself to used yet again then went willingly with MD knowing that things would get out of hand. He should’ve never agreed to go with MD and the dude and after he saw how he was being treated by MD, he should’ve left.
Yea but I mean no one can read minds. So he needs to say smth doesn’t he? That’s why I asked why this and that is okay or not cause I am not into that kinda stuff so I wouldn’t no if that’s an unwritten rule to not use the hand.
They replied to a previous post of mine, look at my topic list smh
The whole scene is wrong from the begging. MD is mixing his emotions and grudge with play. Which is unacceptable. He is making Chanwoo do things he doesn't want to... But he feels obligated because of conditions to do them. BDSM shouldn't be pressured by such factors.
so it’s his fault he’s being emotionally manipulated. that’s literally the stupidest and most victim blaming shit I’ve ever read with my own two eyes. you’re a terrible person lmfao please seek help.
THANK YOU
Ikr I'm disgusted
You’re right, Chanwoo can’t be forced to be with someone he doesn’t and I didn’t say he should be with MD. All I’m saying is Chanwoo is the reason why ALL of this is happening rnw
Last time I checked Chanwoo could’ve done extensive research on the dude before getting emotionally attached to him. He could’ve left after he found out that he got played but he didn’t do anything of those things. Anyways do you mind recommending me to someone who help terrible people like me? I would like to get some help before it too late for me
And that’s on victim blaming LMAO. The reason why Chanwoo wants to introduce that guy to MD is because he wants to make sure of it was okay for him to be in a relationship (where he THOUGHT he was liked back - really isn’t much Chanwoo is asking for lol) while also continuing BDSM with MD. MD took advantage of that (and used the fact the Chanwoo was being used) and manipulated the situation. That’s SUPER petty, knowing Chanwoo has abusive relationships in the past and struggles with safe words and saying ‘no’. MD should’ve known better, having been in BDSM for much much longer.
I swear, this is why authors should be more aware of what they put out bc dumbass consumers will literally defend anything
Nah Chanwoo rushed heart first into this dude. He should’ve gotten to know him before he even thought of introducing him to MD. And yes MD was being real petty which doesn’t excuse his behavior but Chanwoo could’ve done more before betting it all on ole dude
Hop tf off my post bruh don’t be disrespectful. I’m not a dumbass and everyone is entitled to their own fucking opinions so go somewhere else with that shit tf
Chanwoo keeps doing this to himself. He can’t see that the only man out there for him is MD and keeps making shitty choices in men. I really don’t feel sorry for him at all. I saw this coming. The only thing left for him to do is to take his dignity off the wall that MD slapped it to and leave.
Literally no comment. I have no words for such ignorance.
Clearly you did based on the fact that you replied
I’m just trying to figure out who is the Nux now. They both drank the previous Nux blood so who is it now?
Damn I was too immersed in their love I freaking forgot about that.
But I think the seme is the Nux because he drank first.
Oh. I don’t want him to be the Nux tbh
Actually I dont even know what Nux actually is. Im a bit stupid so I dont understand
Lol I think the Nux is the head of the vampires ig
* Had to post it again cuz mangago playing games*
Laying here waiting to see if I come across any spoilers but all I see is people going back and forth about a manhwa that’s isn’t REAL