I have a theory, I think Shiwoo might actually be a sex addict. As in, clinically and psychologically a sex addict, the same way someone might be addicted to drugs or alcohol. If that's the case, it would make consent almost unattainable, like giving consent while under the influence of an aphrodisiac or while drunk.
I understand that she has a lot of issues with past relationships, I totally get that. I actually really relate to her because I went through a lot of the same crap with a past partner, so I can understand not wanting to give your heart away so easily. But GODDAMN her unwillingness to work on her issues is hurting literally everyone around her, including herself. It doesn't matter where she runs or who she hurts, no one will ever be able to put her in a cage, because she's already in one and she built it herself. Haesol actually cares about her and they're really compatible and they could be good for each other, but all she does is push him away and hurt him by cheating on him and rubbing her blatant singleness in his face. It actually kind of scares me that I'll end up like her, since we're so similar. If I ever treat people that actually care about me like she does, I'd hate myself enough to want to die.
i definitely agree with doona putting herself in a cage with her not facing her past but she has been honest abt what she wanted, she has never lied to haesol (that who you mean right?) abt what type of relationship shes wanted with him, she desires a sexual relationship and the minute she realized haesol wanted more she did the right thing and cut him off. shes not ready for relationship because of her past which she explained to haesol.
cheating on him? are u referring to when minho thought that doona slept with wookyung? If yes then i dont think its time to judge yet since there are not info much about that part but im pretty sure they are related and might make them break up at that time
Minho treated her like shit. He's the reason why she's not able to have a relationship. Are you sure you mean Minho and not Haesol?
And she's not cheating on him because they don't have a relationship. You're allowed to have sex with someone else when you're single.
Agreed!! Like Minho literally used to degrade her writing to the point where she's still not comfortable writing now, plus the other mean shit he said to her
I think that Minho treated Doona very poorly in the past, so I'm all for DoonaxHaesol. ^^
Haesol is annoying cry baby lol
Yeah, I also have a friend who reminds me of Doona. My pal here only wants to have physical only relationships which is fine. But Donna goes at it the wrong way, VS my friend who would state what type of relationship she wants making it very clear before getting into anything. My friend would also never stay with someone who is ok with the physical relationship but hopes that it'll become "something more" one day since that will just backfire into drama one day. And if she does have to break a physical relationship my friend does it very professionally through calm conversation and doesn't run and disappear without saying anything.
How doona is wrong? she did tell haesol that she dont want a relationship and finally she left him for his own good even her brother warn him
In the earlier chapters, she let her lust get the better of her, instead of fully informing Haesol who ended up wanting more after his confession in chapter 2/3. Then the darker hair girl (ah hate it when I forget names) who can handle the physical relationship but still wants an emotional one someday. I'd say Donna should just break it off with everyone and start fresh. She almost did in chapter 36 but then we went back to square one.
Doonas in too deep so it's impossible to avoid large drama, with Haesool she should've broken it off in chapter 2/3 but then we wouldn't as much drama in this story.
COMMUNICATION. IS. KEY.
Why do people never understand this?
'Cause unfortunately it is the opposite of Yaoi Plot... ┑(￣Д ￣)┍
I just feel really bad for Haesol. An S&M relationship doesn't have to be purely physical, it's possible to do both romantic and sexual. If only Doona wasn't so afraid to love someone. They would actually be a fairly good match for each other, if she could just learn to be vulnerable again. Guess that's hard for a dom to do though
take a shot every time someone says "hand"
Are you trying to give me alcohol poisoning?
Hahaha!! Alcohol poisoning!!
IT'S A SWITCH MANGA
GET IT
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I regret not looking at your comment before start reading ╥﹏╥