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i’m omw to go to a first date w this guy and i’m so nervous rn. like the butterflies in my stomach are going crazy and the problem is when i get nervous i get nervous to the point i want to throw up so i actually might do that just thought i’d share!! i’m dreading being late but i’m also dreading arriving EDIT: it went so well, not to b......   7 reply

Omg I get you with the first one. I hate it when the main character or male lead have no other relations/friends around them (unless it is a purposeful character point) and they only hang out with each other. It's giving codependency in the worst way and, as you said, takes away from the depth of the characters. I also dislike the trope where the......   1 reply

I get nostalgia hits for mangago sometimes. I found this site during quarantine when I was really chronically online, and I'd just spend hours on my day on here in the forums. This was like in 2020 but I remember there was so much pointless drama and I got to know many people through here. Now basically everyone I knew is inactive or deleted their ......   2 reply

Am I reaching with this? Probably. but I have this theory that even though BLs are man x man, we still force heteronormative standards on them, hence distinct exaggerated roles of a feminine "bottom" and masculine "top". Therefore, as the main character (usually a bottom) is perceived with such feminine quality (or being the "woman" of the relati......   2 reply