coming out really isnt necessary yk ,if you think the outcome will me bad, dont do it! but fr tho i did the same to my aunt( she's not that older than me) and she FREAKED OUT so i was like "lmaoooooooooooo jkkkkk u thought ahahah I'M NOT GAY!? WOW U THOUGHT HAHAH" holy shit i was gonna die. Try to make her think u were joking