This is really so sad. I dont want either of them to go through this! When i was a kid, i had similar experience, using other ppl's name to get my things done and tame me! Everything!! Someone said "parenting in asia" this is exactly true. The amount of gaslighting is insane from the day 1 of birth!! I feel really heavy in chest reading this. I hope they have nice outcomes ╥﹏╥
That bird scared me