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Hey, you guys acting like you guys never struggle. I even read some comment saying that some people defending woowon just because he is hot LMAO.
They come from different upbringings. Seo an might be alone in his family but he has POWER and MONEY. Woo won on the other hands, has a family on his back WITHOUT money nor power. Seo an can do anything because he is used to having power and he only needs to lift his finger to solve everything by money. But woo won? He has nothing. Not even the power to keep his mother safe for sure from his father. Imagine his fear if something happens to his mother while he is working. Imagine how much he will be blaming himself for it?
These explains their way of doing things.
Seo an is forceful, confident, strong, and don't give a fuck to anyone else. He decides whatever he think is right, he did whatever he wants. While Woo won is kind, with low self confidence, works hard, and never complains. He always think of other before himself. He can't even do anything he wants (ex. Swimming, with his injuries and no money).
They are too different. There's no way they won't have a misunderstanding and not understanding each other.
Seo an thinks as his boyfriend, he should do anything he can for his boyfriend. He act like he didn't do anything wrong, but the fact that he is hiding that he met woo won's father is exactly because he knew woo won won't like that. And he still did anyway. Even knowing that woo won will get upset.
Of course, what he did is a good thing for woo won, but not secretly and with such a toxic wordings to explajn. Talk. Ask for his problems, ask his permissions. He has a good intentions, I'm sure he doesn't like seeing his loved ones treated so badly, that's why he moved even without permissions. He is good at heart, we all know that. But not having a proper parents to watch him grow up made him this way.
Woo won is wrong at how he is not used to depend on others. And he is too kind in his nature, he doesn't immediately think bad of others, as he is actually raised by a kind mother, although trashy father. He should learn thatbit is okay to ask for help, and to tell his loved ones his trouble. But even in the real world, there are people like him. Are they pathethic and annoying? No. Its just they are not as strong and selfish as others. They don't know how to. Because they grew up thinking if others, and foing things for others.
UNDERSTAND THEIR CHARACTER WON'T YOU? Don't just start calling someone annoying just because you couldn't understand what they have been going through. Maybe you are strong enough to do it, but woo won who never even experienced having "power" wouldn't be able to. Seo an who is too used of power but grew up alone, also is struggling with communications and how to respects others.
Both are wrong, but at the same time both are understandable.