I’m looking for a chinese(?) romance novel So there was this empress that was sent to the enemy nation with her son to be a captive then comes back to the palace with both her son and daughter dead and finds out that her two female cousins entered the palace as concubines and gets sent to the cold palace gets her tongue cut off (?) then poisoned and killed and wakes up as a younger version of herself and seeks revenge,(she has 2 uncles and her parents are off at war and everyone is scheming against her) meets a son of a duke(?) who’s interested in her after seeing her schemes, some stuff happens and she gets locked in their ancestral tomb or something and burns the place down and purposefully burns herself as her parents (the patriarch? Of the clan) comes back from the battleground. That’s about all I can remember rn I saw it on novelupdates but can’t seem to find it pls help!