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Rape is unacceptable and I agree with that, but for once it's really very interesting to see the swapping of roles.
In many manhwas, such as "The abandoned empress" or "I don't want to be loved" the FL was literally RAPED and suffered all possible humiliations, but that was fine and everyone justified these horrible actions, saying they had a traumatic past, they didn't really want to do it and making excuses after excuses. Not to mention showbiz novel / manhwa where the protagonist is very often drugged and raped by a man ..... and in the end that man is the ML! And the whole story focuses on the ML obsessed like a stalker, and the FL also finds it romantic!
Or when there is the usual ML or the father of every manhwa who is cold as ice and makes FL suffer the worst things, ignoring her making her mistreat by servants / people of society or even worse the ML or the father himself, psychologically abusing her for YEARS, everything is fine "He doesn't know how to express himself, it's not his fault, he's sweet inside"
And these stories are also hugely successful and idolized.

Now that the roles are swapped everyone condemn the FL and this is really hypocritical.
As (some of) you gave those trash MLs a chance, now it's fair to give this FL a chance