Yes you can defend Nathan, bla bla bla BUT you cannot defend the way he acted towards Andrew and their relationship.
Can we all just like, stop together for a moment to acknowledge that? Ok? Thank you.
So, he has a mouth doesn't he? He could you it to talk for once, instad of only using it to suck dick.
And his brain? Is the only thing it can think of getting dick?
The whole way he acted was fucking disrespectful. Disrespectful to Andrew and most importantly disrespectful to their RELATIONSHIP.
They were still dating while he was entertaining the artist. The moment he (the artists) started flirting he should've pushed him away and established professional boundaries because that would've been a respectful thing to do for Andrew and their relationship.
Instad he is acting all coy and flirty, like "Oh if I wasn't in a relationship I would've fucked you"
DUUUUUUDE that's not something someone in a relationship should be saying, fucking go away with that shit
Instead, at the first sign of problem (that he didn't say was a problem) he up and went to fuck the other dude, while AGAIN not EXPLICITLY telling Andrew that they are broken, or the reason he wants to break up. To Andrew things were going fine because he was left in the dark.
Imagine you are Andrew, your beautiful boyfriend that you love invites you to this big event he is planning for months. You are there to support him and meet his friends. But then you see some rando sliding his hands all over your partner. Around his hips, his waist, being flirty and your partner is doing NOTHING to stop this. Literally just letting it happen.
The fucking DIS-RES-PECT.
He suddenly saw his seemingly perfect partner flirting with a guy he never saw before, letting him touch him in the intimate way, and then when things somehow got out of hand (he didn't understand why) Nathan just gets up, says some vague shit that he isn't sure what means because, again, HE DIDN'T TALK TO HIM. And then the rando tells you "Oh yah we actually talked and he is gonna go with me to get a good dicking, you wanna join in?" again, imagine being Andrew, the disrespect (how many times did I say this word already? ) of just having to stand there and listen to this guy, asking YOU if YOU want to come and fuck YOUR partner together with HIM! And you can't make a scene because you love your partner and don't want to screw up something they've been preparing for months.
You wait outside wanting to talk about what just happen and you see your partner exiting with the douche rando that said he's gonna dick your partner. And your partner just tells you "Sorry not sorry it's just sex deal with it".
Fucking RI-DI-CU-LO-US
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