Relating to sang hwa's situation kinda made me feel bad about myself, i haven't graduated yet but at my 19s passing an animation college with the portfolio i prepared was a pain in the ass, also when i got accepted to one, i needed to move to another country, so free anxiety and homesickness, it was like i bought buy one get two discounts, i am pretty used to here now, but those were bad times.
I think the person with feminine clothes just crossdresses, there was this one time a friend I just met was wearing clothes for the opposite gender, first I thought this was their way to come out to me as trans, when we were getting coffee, the barista, in fact many places we have been through missgendered them, so I yelled at her, saying damnit for the last time Its a him, and tbh acted like a karen of lgbtq justice. Made the biggest fuss you can imagine. Later when we were on the way to my car they told me that they just liked to wore this type of clothing because it is way comfortable, nothing else. I cringed for the rest of the day at our hangout.