To everyone who thinks that she can easily refuse, you must put yourself in her shoes. Yes she wants to pursue her dreams but she's also worried about the consequences her family will face from refusing. Ofc she'll be worried since they've been very supportive of her. However, the weight of being a queen isnt something to take lightly as well.
I was scared that theyd make aira into a b*tchy character but im so glad that isnt the case